points Cods.
1 women actually hit men more in relationships then vice versa.
YOU HAVE THE STATS ON THAT I PRESUME
but the likelihood that a woman can do serious damage to a man (unless she hits him with an object)is very low, whereas a man with his thicker chest can do serious damage.
NICE OF YOU TO ACCEPT THAT MEN ARE STRONGER THAN WOMEN
2 with regards your anecdote above with Ms nahu.
whilst there is no excuse for his behaviour, the most important drive in nature is the drive to have your DNA survive and women hold the keys to whether a man is going to have this drive met or not.
so whilst she has every right to reject his advances, the biological truth is that this is the absolute worst and most deeply primordial rejection that a woman can give to a man.
because , at a deep primitive level , it says to the man that his DNA (ie himself) would be better off being eliminated from the face of the earth.
and the anger and agression centres are located in those same deep primitive parts of the brain.
so women are expected to understand male dna... where as its ok if a bloke doesnt understand a females dna....as you so quaintly put it
so a man has to have excellent emotional control not to react in a very inferior way when he is rejected.
oh dear.....rejected.....
have you ever noticed aque in the animal kingdom the male is very very dominant..he has a whole harem of females to choose from..and I would expect a few of the females not chosen would feel REJECTED...
this is also a fact in some human cultures
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now the superior man (such as aquascoot) loves doing the brutal training of exercising emotional control and pushing thru problems without becoming a resentful bitter emotional mess.
but most men nowadays are not taught this emotional mastery AT ALL.
they are pandered to and kept safe and do not know how to handle their emotions.
we could train them in the harsh reality of life but the left would never go for it.
i think thats a big mistake, i think you harden young men up to make them safe, you dont treat them like little girls to make them safe.
but thats just me.
either way, those primitive parts of the brain are way more powerful then logic and reaso
so what would you suggest... our schools teach males how to behave when they are REJECTED>.
or teach females not to REJECT the male bec ause you could end up dead.
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maybe set up more counselling for the male who appears..self control is not something that comes naturally..