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https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-15799571 Quote:Why are so many Britons leaving Australia?
By Mark Bosworth
BBC News
23 November 2011
Thousands of Britons emigrate to Australia every year in search of a better life, but now more and more are deciding down under is not for them and returning home. The same trend seems to be happening to Australians deserting the UK. Why?
Despite a fierce sporting rivalry between the British nations - especially England - and Australia, the countries enjoy very close ties. It's a bond cemented by the thousands of Britons and Australians who travel to the other side of the world in search of a new life.
For many, it's a dream come true to visit and eventually settle in a country that's far away but also very familiar. Britons are attracted by the outdoor lifestyle, sunshine and sense of space, while Australians are drawn to the history, the adventure and the UK's proximity to the European mainland.
Many end up settling down in their new country but in recent years, for an increasing number, it's not the one-way trip they had intended.
Despite Australia's booming economy, more than 7,000 British people left the country for good in 2009-10 - the largest emigration recorded in recent memory - according to figures from Australia's immigration department.
Between 2005 and 2010, nearly 107,000 Britons settled in Australia but during the same period more than 30,000 decided to permanently leave. And the feeling appears to be mutual, with fewer Australians arriving in the UK.
The difficult economic situation in the UK goes some way to explain why fewer Australians should be heading there, but it's more surprising that the expat British should be leaving a booming country in exchange for one still struggling to recover from a recession.
Chief among the reasons why the British are leaving include missing friends and family, and lacking a real sense of belonging, says Prof Roger Burrows, a sociologist from the University of York who has studied the phenomenon.
"The people who don't settle have always lived close to their friends and family [in the UK] so any move comes as a shock.
"If they live in a bungalow in the suburbs of Adelaide, it gets lonely. There isn't a culture of going for a drink after work and the TV is terrible."
When I was in London in July this year it was much cheaper to eat out than in Sydney and Melbourne
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Some people went to Australia for the heat but ended up hating the warmth, the flies, and having to cover the kids in sun cream all the time, he says.
"It's not about living by the coast in the sun - it's about living in a dull flat in suburbs that don't have any real infrastructure."
For some migrants, moving to Australia can be a source of sorrow and regret for people for the rest of their lives, he says.
Not everyone leaves with bad memories though. Tom Armstrong, a 41-year-old father, moved back to London this year after four happy years in Sydney, because of a new job opportunity at his media company. But a big bonus was being reunited with friends and family in the UK.
"We moved out to Australia because my wife wanted to be closer to her family, and we had four fantastic years there. It was a wonderful lifestyle with friendly people and a very high quality of life.
"If I could get all of my friends and family out there to live, and I had the right job, then living in Australia would be a no-brainer."
Some British people complain about a lack of culture and history, he says, but that depends where you live.
"Sydney and Melbourne are world-class cities with plenty of great things to see and do, but outside the big urban areas life is definitely less colourful and probably more of an acquired taste. The biggest drawbacks for Brits in my opinion is the long distance from friends and family."
Martin Gilbert, 47, will move back to the UK with his English partner next year after 24 years in Australia.
Why one Briton is leaving...
By Martin GilbertAfter 24 years down under
Australia has been good to me. Certainly I've had some good times here but there is something fundamental and soulful missing here for me.
My parents are getting older. I miss seeing my friends' kids growing up but I think it is the small day-to-day things you miss rather than major events.
Australia has become more and more expensive. In fact I think it is more expensive than parts of the UK.
I think life in England is tougher and more competitive but that is a good thing sometimes.
Here I feel like I'm on the outside looking in and don't really understand why.
I think people come to Australia expecting it to be England with sunshine. But nobody is lounging in the sun, day in day out.
"Australia has been good to me. Certainly I've had some good times here but there is something fundamental and soulful missing here for me."
Life in England is tougher and more competitive, he believes, and that's something he has missed. Plus he hasn't been able to shake feeling like an outsider, even after all this time, and Australia has become more expensive in recent years.
It used to be that you could come to Australia from the UK for a cheaper lifestyle...