the caste system probably did have some sort of effect.
men are very concerned with status and for good reason.
women, throughout most of nature, decides who gets to reproduce.
and what most women say, to most men is "not good enough".
so men will be rejected far more often then they will be accepted .
Now, if we add in the current ideology that to even approach a woman , if she finds that awkward, is to be guilty of sexual harrassment , then it becomes even more difficult for most men.
women tend to mate (or try to mate) with men who are slightly higher in status then they are.
men will mate down the female hierachy but women not so much.
its a big big problem, not just for men but for women.
a 30 yo woman who is good looking, has a good career and is after a mate, is choosing from an ever diminishing pool of available men.
and ,say a successful 30 yo male, can always choose a 25 yo woman (instead of the 30 yo)because she is available, has a longer period of fertility and wont be pressuring him as soon to commence breeding.
to indian men who are feeling sad, lonely, butt hurt and sorry for themselves, i would say this.
the female brain looks much more at the "behaviours" of a high status male then the actual legitimacy of this status itself.
high status men are chilled, self amused, smile a lot, never desperate, a bit indifferent to the women, have lots of "in " jokes and funny little things they are doing to keep themselves pumped.
if you are an indian and you can learn to laugh at yourself, be a bit indifferent to women, get them to "chase your vibe", then they will want to buy in.
thats really the key.
if you act high status, the female reptilian brain will assume you are high status.
no one (especially a woman) will show you any mercy.
you have to man up, display that core confidence and then you are set.
practicing all the doctrines of the "narrow road to success" will be a key.
never complain, stand up straight, man up, love that its hard, smile when a woman blows you off, find something funny in a woman blowing you off, act like you could not care less ( emulate Trump) and you will have chicks all over you.