miketrees wrote on Dec 19
th, 2017 at 10:52pm:
Going on stress leave is a risk.
You take leave and you may not get paid if the case is not accepted.
I still maintain you should just quietly escape from a sociopath if you can.
I also know that that is not possible at times,,, my idea of hell being stuck with a sociopath.
I would admire anyone that can do what Aqua suggested, playing along with them.
I would kill them first.
there is a reason to be resentful of a bully.
life is unfair.
people have every right to feel self pity.
people have every right to feel victimised.
i just dont think it works.
psychopaths and bullies arent pleasent to deal with.
neither is cancer, a relationship breakdown, one of your kids being in a car accident.
but life is suffering .
the 2 most important people from the east and the west (buddha and jesus) both came to this conclusion.
their life was symbolic of this.
they nailed jesus to a cross for gawds sake.
so much for the "good news'.
but once you accept life is suffering, you can begin to transcend it.
what you resist will persist.
but if you can accept that you just pick up your cross and move forward with your head held high, then you cant fail to win.
because a bully is weak, a psychopath is weak and they are looking for a target that will make nice gratifying sounds of suffering.
and if you bear your cross nobley and with a smile, you are now a source of good clean energy. and people "like" good clean energy and it will turn around for you.
if you whine and complain, go home and kick the dog, let this pain define you, become a self pitying cry baby in front of your wife and kids, then you are a source of dirty polluted energy. and people dont want to be around that sort of energy.
i think there is a truism "laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone".
so remain disciplined,. dont let the bully win, be strategic and build relationships "around" the bully.
"be that guy".
we all like it to be easy.
thats a mistake.
you should like it that its hard.
thats where the growth is.
this bully can fuel your resilience
this bully can put you in a mental state where you feel more awesome becasue you went thru the fire.
you think this bully is your worst enemy, in fact, he could be your best friend .
Ummm ok.
Meantime......Sprint needs to know what his next step should be. That means seeking free and confidential professional legal advice.
Unfortunately it's the silly season and as such...many industries are more or less closing down until the 2nd week of the New Year.