Setanta wrote on Dec 8
th, 2017 at 9:04pm:
UnSubRocky wrote on Dec 8
th, 2017 at 5:42pm:
Shut up, Setanta. Seems that I have had a harder life than you. Had guns pulled on you? I have been shot. My ex-girlfriend grew up in an abusive family, raped by a family friend, and developed an eating disorder. I have been mugged at knife point, and then seen that mugger get shot 10 seconds later by an army buddy of a former friend. I have been accused of things beyond my control that lead to being harrassed for a very long time. I was an accused murderer by proxy at age 9 by none the less than 2 teachers, two police officers, 2 family members of the murdered (including one that escaped being murdered).
But the thing about our stories is that it is not Kate Fischer's problem. Had she experienced any of our problems, she might be dead and not just fat. Go ask her for her story and find out the source of her weight gain. I bet it is not just overeating and a lack of exercise.
Now tell me... Do you blame your inability to control your weight on that or do you know that you eat and drink the wrong shyte and don't exercise enough? From what I have read of your battle with weight, you don't blame anything in your history and know exactly why you put on weight and attempt to address it. You do nothing here but help the point I was making.
Well, it is a long story. But I can't really write much without revealing who I am. But I have been a victim of people's pranks. Pranks of people 'poisoning' my water supply and leaving me with health problems that included somewhat uncontrollable weight gain, no matter how well I do with exercise and dieting. This schitt has only stopped in the last 18 months, and I am re-establishing control over my life. And, for the record, a lot of the problems involve people clashing with me because they want something for nothing.
If I went about having a diet of fatty foods and sugary drinks, and lacked exercising, I would be blaming myself for my weight gain. But the whole issue is that I have gained weight as a result of poor self-esteem, depression, lack of sleep, overstressing myself, and being stressed as a result of a former drug dealer trying to blackmail me. Incidentally, that drug dealer had a lot of contacts who were more than willing to make people's lives a misery for the sake of money making activities.
Some of the blame for my health I can accept responsibility. But I had a hard entrance toward adulthood and I was unprepared. I can imagine that Kate, with the reputation of being a bit of a slut (real or imagined) was probably not expecting her to be the victim of certain capital crimes. She probably suffered to the point that she gave up and took to eating as a form of comforting and self-defence. Though, it is not up to me to make that call. Gaining weight for me was a type of defence. Though, I received unsolicited harm from the nutjobs in the neighbourhood who decided that their fun was more important than my life.
I feel like I had exaggerated my problems. Unfortunately, they are not exaggerations, but real life scenarios that have victimised me. It is a surprise that *I* am alive, and not just fat.