what really works well for men (and this will also work for a woman who is with a man whose destiny is tied to hers) is for a woman to be a source of pure playful fun feminine energy.
when a man goes to work (goes to war to grind it out and hustle in the marketplace), he will come home with an adrenaline/cortisol soup running thru his veins.
and if he has a very feminine, very sassy, very nurturing, woman to TELL HIM and ACT AROUND HIM like he is a champion, he will be recharged...in fact, he will go back to war the next day feeling super awesome and super confident and thinking he is "the sh**T".
and guess what, if you go to work feeling super confident and super awesome
1 you will crush it at work and the partnership with this energy source (ie your woman) will put you into an upward spiral.
2 you wont be straying with all those other woman because you already have those needs met.
its paradoxical that so many woman "putz shame their husband"
the man on TV from "everybody loves raymond" , thru to "married with children", thru to phil from "modern family" are figures to be treated as "losers".
and if you treat your man like a loser, he will end up "fat steve on the couch" and you wont want to have sex with him anymore (this is the nature of a self fulfilling prophesy)
or
he will look for validation elsewhere and cheat on you with little jenny at work because you didnt give him any feminine energy (all you did was nag him and shame him).
this is also the nature of a self fulfilling prophesy.
as usual, if you believe the "group think" if you belive what modern social conditioning is telling both men and women, that you have to be treated as an equal and that you have to "get something" before you "give good energy", then you are a fool and you are literally being cheered over the cliff.
seyonara sucker