Red neck Eats 3 Carolina Reapers and downs 5th of fire ball

because they lack direction in life.
they have fallen for the group think message that the meaning of life is to

1  pleasure yourself
2  just cope.  just cope with this harsh world.

when you have no north star, when you have no passion, when all you can see is "me,me,me and my little story" then you are screwed.

if you cant get into expansive light fun energy which is always associated with moving towards a goal, then you are going to become a drifter.

previous generations could not drift.

the evolutionary blowtorch was applied to them and they contributed value to the tribe or they were treated as garbage.

but now people really feel that they can contribute nothing, just be a little taker, and still maintain "worth".

we all know deep down, that this is untrue.

once you stop contributing
once you lose a north star
once you lose momentum

you are farrrrrrrrked 

No, sorry . . .that's venom.

bogarde73 wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 7:32am:


What's the go?  Is is 'free kick at Mothra week?'

Seriously ~ Why is the suicide rate in Australia so high?

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Statistics on Suicide in Australia

Suicide remains the leading cause of death for Australians aged between 15 and 44.

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The suicide rate amongst Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples is more than double the national rate. In 2015, suicide accounted for 5.2% of all Indigenous deaths compared to 1.8% for non-Indigenous people.

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The ABS recorded 3,027 deaths by intentional self-harm in 2015, the highest number on record.

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VETERINARIANS, paramedics, security guards, truck drivers and engineers share some of the state’s deadliest jobs a new report has found.

A Victorian Coroners Prevention Unit report into suicide rates among workers in key professions raises serious questions about the level of support provided in some occupations.

Employee groups say trauma, isolation, long hours, stress and poor pay contribute to high suicide rates in some professions,

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Aussie wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:17am:

She loves us!

bogarde73 wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 7:32am:



What? Women you can't stop obsessing over?

That's down to you, Bogey. All down to you.

Lord Herbert wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 1:02pm:

Isn't that just called stirring the pot?

Lord Herbert wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:56am:



do you think men find it harder to cope?..

disappointment rejection ignorance its there all through our lives..

maybe men are told too often not to cry  why is it shameful for a man to cry I have never understood that.

cods wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 2:34pm:



men are .... scared by emotions.

So immature men used to say 'don't cry'.
That has sort of gone.

but men often lack other men friends.
So all their 'friendship' emotions go to a female.
Or are stifled.

many of the comments on chat sites point to a guy who has few or no real male friends.
Or who has repressed emotions.

Being a bloke can be trying.

Sprintcyclist wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 2:51pm:


Indeed. That is what all the evidence suggests.

Toxic masculinity. It's killing men and boys ... and is absolutely no good for women and girls either.

Absolute codswallop. Some professions cant get life insurance due to high suicide rates. These are all highly male dominated professions. Secretarial work hardly exposes anyone to the same trauma. This new age far left lesbo theory of "toxic masculinity" is a load of rubbish invented by the femo nazis.

Well at least he tries mothra... 
and succeeds where you fail.

Just having a little troll were you dearie?

Others are so much better at it and everything else than you.

Back on topic...

Depression is a main cause.
Brought on by feelings of hopelessness usually.

Grendel wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:06pm:

The hopelessness of being born to a feminazi perhaps 

The highest suicide rates are among the professions which are dominated by men and have constant exposure to trauma. Doctors fit into this category and have a correspondingly high suicide rate. Just the facts, but dont let them get in the way of some crackpot femo nazi theory about men not confronting their emotions. All designed of course by the far left Lesbo man hating movement to show that men would be just like women if only we would get rid of our "toxic emotions" which according to the men haters cause every known problem in the world.

rhino wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:13pm:



Female doctors and nurses at least three times more likely to commit suicide: study

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-09-19/female-health-professionals-at-higher-risk...



Over the past 30 years, there have been some great achievements in gender equity. The number of women enrolled in professional degrees, such as law and medicine, rose from less than 25% in the 1970s to more than 50% in 2015. Australia has introduced a number of equal opportunity policies in health care and in 2000 achieved gender parity in medical schools.

Today, women are typically the dominant group within medical schools and yet remain under-represented in formal leadership positions and particular speciality areas. Although today there is greater female participation in medical roles, it still appears that women are hitting the glass ceiling.

https://theconversation.com/female-doctors-in-australia-are-hitting-glass-ceilin...

Sprintcyclist wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 2:51pm:



expectations are higher......you are meant to be stronger  and have all the answers..

I find the stats to be very sad and very alarming to be honest...we need to give men back their self esteem  I dont blame the fair sex  entirely  but we never seem to give credit where its due anymore...

I am not sure I would want to be a man to be honest....I have always thought you had the best of the deal....if I can call it that.....but not anymore...I look at  my beautiful grandsons. I have 5   and I am always telling them how important they are and how proud I am of what they do I give them a pat on the back no matter how small the deed...one of them won the Golden Gloves in Qld  I am not happy he is boxing  but I couldnt be prouder of him  not becaus ehe won.. because he keep trying he works two jobs. is studying at CITS.....turns up at all our family do's...hes 21 a credit to mum and dad...

its just what I would want for every young man out there...

rhino wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:13pm:



strangely enough the Psychiatry profession has a very high level of suicide  among their  specialists.....


what does that tell us?....


we are not coping and the modern world is getting harder to live in...nothing is simple anymore....

look at us for instance we come on here knowing full well we can end up in a nasty argument   that really goes nowhere....

we barely make any attempt to see others point of view....

please dont tell me this does not affect people!
  what goes on on here does....some worse than others...but to pretend it doesnt put your back up or makes you flaming angry   I dont believe it...

this is  road rage in cyberspace....

some folks make me want to give up   others just ping me off.....


I cant imagine what it would be like to work day in day out with them.....and probably they think the same with me...

cods wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:29pm:

Look for the neck muscles and that's how you spot boxers!

cods wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:44pm:

How does he take a punch?

We all know today is RU OK day right?

I mean this sincerely..hope we're all OK today 

TheFunPolice wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 2:26pm:


The trouble with mothra is she always wants to discuss pan-socialist ideas rather than sticking to the issues that are most relevant to Australia.  We all sympathise with the plight of the slave labour in Sri Lanka etc, but the reality for most of us here in Realityland is that we have no impact on that and little to no choice but to tolerate it - until this nation can stand on its own two feet again after ridding itself of all its social and economic evils that have held sway for forty odd years now.

Mothra is clearly intelligent, but lacking in (gasps) emotional intelligence.... and often feels that confrontation brings the best results... a bit like longie in that way - the way to negotiate is to tear their balls off, call them stupid or deranged or 'out of touch'** or whatever, and then dictate terms....


**I can assure you I am fully 'in touch' with issues - I just happen to disagree with the way many of them are handled and sold in the futile hope that a gullible community will continue to assist in putting on its own chains to benefit the 'inside' groups.

mothra wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 3:18pm:




That's absolutely appalling.

I know that in the psychiatric profession the psychiatrists have routine scheduled therapy sessions with a fellow-psychiatrist.

I know from close personal observation as a hospital patient that the student nurses, the registered nurses, and the Ward sisters are run off their feet in a very stressful environment.

"I know that in the psychiatric profession the psychiatrists have routine scheduled therapy sessions with a fellow-psychiatrist."

Maybe that's what drives them over the edge...

Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:23pm:


At one time they were at the top of the suicide list.

They commit suicide because after many years of university study to qualify as psychiatrists they then discover that in the real world of clinical practice they are almost always as useless as tits on a bull. For a while they can delude themselves, but after a few years these apologist rationalisations can no longer be sustained, and that's when they reach for the pill bottle, the alcohol, and eventually the rope.

At very best they find themselves doing little more of any practical use than signing prescriptions.

Years of hard study and exams all coming down to being ineffectual pretenders who are denied job-satisfaction because psychiatry in real practice is pretty much a waste of everybody's time.

They also have a ready supply of heavy drugs available to them, and many fall foul of alcoholism.

rhino wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:32pm:


These same psychiatrists who claim to believe that homosexuality is normal.

SAY     NO    MORE

rhino wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:32pm:


All my stories are truth..... sorry 'bout that.

Valkie wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:37pm:



My philosophy precisely - don't take out yourself - go to war, undeclared and the war of the flea, with those who have chosen to be your enemies by inflicting harm upon you and yours... and take them out.

Valkie wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:56pm:


Where did you learn that philosophy? I'm a graduate of Ardknox and am now a double professor emeritus and dean of studies at Ardknox College.....

Learned everything the hard way....... ya gotta admit - the Twentieth Century was all theirs .. ALL of it!!

Yadda wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 9:17pm:


 

Indeed, the government initiated and supported war between men and women has many casualties on both 'sides'.... and it is the way this artificially created conflict is being handled by those same governments that is causing the casualties.... piling confrontation onto confrontation, violence onto violence, discrimination onto discrimination....

It will all one day end in a bloody war - or in the total suppression of the 'peasants' and their re-making into a set of Neo-Serfs....

Your choice.......

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kb       ;k/; k/
/kp';odtyc''

aquascoot wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:16am:

Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 4:22pm:


You shouldn't be like that Grappler.
Nobody asked or wants to know your opinion of Mothra.
You know what your mother used to say..if you can't....   !!!!???

Your opinions are often way outside MY comfort zone, but I respect you nevertheless.

Men are in a hard place, this is true.
I think that many men live lives of resentment and victimhood.
(as do women, they just generally handle it better, having had all of history to get used to it..)

Men have heard all their lives of their role in the world, and now, that is radically different in many ways.

For some men..responsibility and expectations never really held before are now weighing on their shoulders.

It is scary. It isn't YOUR world anymore. You have to share.
You have to GROW UP.
Inevitably those unable to adapt will fall by the way.
This is LIFE.

I will give my views anywhere, any time... and you may agree or disagree - but you may not attack my personal integrity in any way.....


I HAVE NOT ATTACKED YOUR INTEGRITY IN ANY WAY.

do you have some objection to people who raise disagreement over obvious wrongs or something and who seek to set right the very serious wrongs within our society at this time?

NO I HAVE NO OBJECTION TO ANYONE SEEKING TO RIGHT WRONGS.

Yadda wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 9:17pm:

"She was practiced at the art of deception. Well I could tell by her blood-stained hands."

- The Rolling Stones

Emma wrote on Sep 15^th, 2017 at 12:10am:



some mixed up thinking in there.
You are indeed correct that part of the problem is that many men have become victims and just feel sorry for themselves.
But that is precisely the problem.
men need to be  accept (as do women) that being a victim and feeling sorry for yourself is merely self sabotage and the ONLY way out of this is to give up your addiction to these negative thought loops.

i have to disagree strongly that men are now "burdened ' with all these new and onerous "responsibilities".

men have, in fact, abrogated their responsibilites.

a man , if he is to be any use to a woman or a child or to society has to have "good and positive things" going on in his mind. this is HIS responsibility.

if a woman and eventually children are to be part of his frame of mind, then he better make dam sure that his frame of mind is filled with joy , passion and positive thoughts.

this is where men have gone wrong.

its simply easier to be a butt hurt little "sorry for yourself" puke who wants everyone else to pleasure you.
its childish.

men are told by "groupthink" to attract womenwith money or cars or big muscles or a rolex. these are gimmicks.

eventually, a man has to ask himself one question.

if a woman is to know the real authentic me, if she is to become part of my mental world, then is that world a world of positive emotions, joy, passion, courage, expansive energy and contribution.

if its not, then that man needs to work on himself until he creates that mental frame for himself.
everything short of that is window dressing and will eventually be seen thru and lead to disaster.

and most men will not do it because they are too damm lazy to do it.

laziness has lead to craziness.

men have to own it and do something about it.

they need to shoulder the burden of being men and master their emotions or they will  always know they are a fraud

I think its multi-factorial. 

Mental health is always an area where its chronically under resourced.  And its a real issue.  Its well and truly good when you are healthy, you can say what are you going to do when you feel a bit 'down'. 

Depression is more than about feeling a bit 'down'.   I know, because I have seen this happening to a close family  friend, who you can say by all aspect should not have anything to be depressed about.   To an extend where few of us had to drag him out of bed to go to see the doctor.   At first, he was lumped into the public health system, through the CATT team.  And I tell you, short of him putting a gun to himself or someone else, there are simply not enough resources to get help.  Luckily, he is very wealthy, and we were able to get him a place in a private hospital.   I would hate to think what would happened if he was left to the mercy of the public system mental health.

Sprintcyclist wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 11:43pm:


Good God, man - you blew it with that comment on Ardknox College.... I thought, way back in this discussion, I offered one or two deep and penetrating insights into various things, which I note very few respond to - but I feel your generalisations are becoming very (what is that terrible word - shudders) 'mangina-ish'.

I have NO close friends - it's a personal choice.  On the other hand there is not one person who will say that I am not friendly and helpful etc, it's just that people do not get close to me.  They tend to get lost along the way, so I don't go there.  I believe you've seen that elsewhere by now.

Anyway - stop sucking up to the sheilas, mate - men are a varied lot and not all part of some prescription or formula, you know... some of us actually know what we're about and what life can be about ... you're beginning to worry me.

Wallabies to beat Argentina...

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hhmmm.
Am not confident of us.

3 games, no wins so far.   

It does not help when
Women are constantly abusing men and taking them to the cleaners
Women often do the nastyiest things to men when a relationship ends, they can beso visiciously inventive.

Then we have the grubberment, constantly pushing, fining, abusing and taking.
And if a man cannot find a job, they hound him to death
Aftervall, men are the breadwinners arent they?

Men are under constant attack by the PC mob, generally made up of queers, and pseudo male feminists.
Its wrong to be a man, men have to deny their nature to fight and compete, men are expected to go against their nature and show their feminine side.
Men are constantly apologising for being what they are....men.

And now, we have affirmitave action for women, men, more capable and better at a job are being replaced by a less competent and less qualified woman, because she is a woman.
And some professions have been completly taken over by women, men are ostrasized and hounded out so that the lemon club can rule in peace

Finally, men in Australia are under constant attack for being
Invaders
Mysoginistic
Homophobic
Islamophobic
And every other type of PC bull s#$t that these turds can come up with.

Who would want to be a man?

But some of us reject this rubbish
We are too strong for the PC turds
Too confident to accept the rubbish from feminists
Too capable to be replaced by an incompetent.

We are the men who marry real women and have no fear of that woman and her dreams because they are the same
We enjoy life, laughing at the twisting, squishing and hiding that less manly men do to placate the feminists and PC turds.

Ever seen a feminist or PC turd loose it?
If you havent, you aint tried hard enough.
And when you do you lagh at them.

In every case they revert to their base instincts and they attack.
Its really, really funny, they cant fight for s#$t

Bwian trolls and adds nothing to the discussion.
Yet again.

Sprintcyclist wrote on Sep 15^th, 2017 at 11:45am:



Don't apologise - I'm just sensitive... grumpy old bastard etc at times.... and I have my personal sacred cows, as does everyone...

rhino wrote on Sep 15^th, 2017 at 12:55pm:



Poor dear.
You just give in and go top yourself do you?

There is not one person on this planet more important or better than me.

And

I am the worst person I know

So everyone else is not worth thinking about.

Valkie wrote on Sep 16^th, 2017 at 8:28am:
People with severe depression cant somehow "will themselves out of it" you idiot. Its like saying people with cancer can will themselves out of it, both are illnesses. Every single one of your posts exposes you for what you are, an ignorant loud mouth buffoon.

Jasin wrote on Sep 14^th, 2017 at 8:35pm:



Perth is just an outpost within an outpost 

Emma wrote on Sep 15^th, 2017 at 12:10am:


DON'T TELL GRAPPLER WHAT HE CAN AND CAN'T POST ABOUT!

THAT'S NOT YOUR CALL EMMA/MOTHRA ETC

Emma wrote on Sep 16^th, 2017 at 8:24pm:


x2

Some good posts there! 

I could have swore this was about male suicide...

since when is rugby more important than why men kill themselves..

aquascoot wrote on Sep 25^th, 2017 at 12:06pm: