Agnes wrote on Aug 11
th, 2017 at 7:10pm:
Valkie wrote on Aug 11
th, 2017 at 6:46pm:
Lord Herbert wrote on Aug 11
th, 2017 at 6:31pm:
cods wrote on Aug 11
th, 2017 at 5:33pm:
if they want to get marriage for gawds sakes let them....then lets watch the divorce rate double over night.(
I've seen commentary where it was said that the great bulk of
de facto marriages between gay males do not last even for two years.
The 'relationship' between gays is WAY more one of focussing on genitalia and sexual obsession than is the case with the vast majority of hetero- relationships.
True
Homosexuals are totally focused on LUST rather than LOVE.
They believe they are in love simply because they are so self absorbed that they dont know the difference.
That is why they are gay in the first place, simply because they love themselves so much that they look for someone similar to themselves, even the same sex.
I know a few gays, family and friends, they are always having serious issues with their partners at the time.
The bitchiness is unbelievable.
They have way more partners than my hetro friends, why is this so?
One has had upward of 40 different partners in the 40 years I have known him.
Oh there are occasional stable relationships.
One female? gay couple have been together for 30 years, but they are the exception.
Yep, its all LUST with LOVE being a secondary consideration.
Rubbish and a sweeping and very ignorant generalistion about a subject you know nothing about- they are human beings and individuals with all the complexities of the human condition manifest- keep your stupid gob shut! And gay relationships last about the same as anyone else- I used to think you were gay Valkie just based on some of your posts- ?????
Im sorry my dear, I have no interest in men.
even an ugly woman appeals to me more than a pretty man, it just aint normal.
I am a happy married hetro male with a wonderful wife (who puts up with my shite)
And I have several family members and several friends, as well as a few workmates and gals who are gay.
Do they talk about the love of theior lives?
No, they talk about their latest conquest.
Do they consider their partner before themselves?
Not from what I have seen.
Do they lust after others of their own sex?
Like a randy 17 year old, even though they are (in the main) in their 30s and 40s.
Apart from one couple, they all change partners as often as I change TV stations.
Every week is a new bloke/shela etc
Don't get me wrong, They are great fun to work with and be around.
They make great friends, and really bad enemies.
But they don't seem to understand undying love, love of the person, not the act.
I know love, I would give my life for my wife, she is my first thought in the morning and the last at night.
My only real fear in life is that one day we will have to part when we shrug off our mortal bodies.
Love is just being near and feeling safe, sitting on a lounge and just being together quietly.
Not being near enough to grope.
Love is touching each other in passing, not sexually, but just a light touch to say "I love you"
I don't see my gay family of friends doing these things.
They hold hands, not as an expression of love, but to make a statement.
Perhaps gays don't seem to feel love like we do.
Perhaps I'm missing something or perhaps being gay puts a different slant on love.
But I see lust in their eyes, I see them wanting each other, not loving each other.
I feel sad for people who have never known true love, there is nothing like it, nothing to compare.
I may have a stupid gob, but I will not keep it shut.
If I annoy you, I truly apologize.
But I say it as I see it, and as complex as human nature is, tossing further complexities into it by being gay may not be the best mix.