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bogarde73
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Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:35am
 
But then I am a stirrer par excellence.

When I was 14 or 15 (or 12 or 13) I probably fantasised about some older woman teaching me the facts of life . . .or molesting me as the law would have it.

I was reading today about the Michigan woman, a 38 year old married teacher, who has been sentenced to some years for just that.
She would sneak out late at night, drive to a boy's home and have sex with him in the car.

One of the boys' mothers gave her a scathing blast in court about how it had ruined her son's life. How he was being bullied at school.
Bullied for what?

Of course this woman (offender) has problems that need addressing but - and here's the controversial bit - I don't see it as anything like, nothing at all like some old guy having sex or worse raping an underage girl (or boy).

Of course this never happened to me (sad to say) so I don't know if it would have ruined my life. You can't know if you haven't experienced it.
But as far as I am concerned the main thing that would ruin the boys lives would be the publicity.

But then you can't have older women going around and pleasuring young boys. It's not politically correct for one thing.
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Reply #1 - Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:42am
 
What rubbish - some old guy shags a young sheila and to you it's rape because the poor little dear is incapable of meaningful consent etc - some old sheila shags a young guy and he's apples because he's incapable of meaningful consent etc since he's so hormoned up he has no idea beyond a standing d1ck....

You really are a very sexually sick puppy... you'd go well as a mullah ranting about how evil women are... just silly empty vessels only fit to be righteously filled.... and some young guy poking a sheep or goat is more righteous than sticking it in some sheila.... evil sluts that they are.... cat meat etc...

Sick, sick, sick... sex is normal and healthy... but there are SOCIAL rules - one of which is you do NOT shag your students.... society runs on rules... not teacher's stupidity and cupidity.

As an afterthought, anyone else sick yet of hearing how these dopey sheilas in prison and schools go around breaking the rules as if they don't apply to them?  Should've been kept in the kitchen.... I wouldn't employ one in a prison and I'd be very wary of having them as teachers now, too... too many breaches and no sense...  Shocked
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Reply #2 - Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:45am
 
bullied??  hardly .  more like cheered




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Reply #3 - Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:46am
 
I don't think you read my post Grappler. Or if you did you failed to understand it.
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Reply #4 - Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:56am
 
I certainly did fantasise about older women when I was at school whether it be a teacher or otherwise and I dare say it is a pretty normal thing for most males. Sure she was wrong to do it, but if I was one of those boys I would have jumped at the chance.
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Reply #5 - Aug 10th, 2017 at 1:19pm
 
So you don't think young girls fantasise about being taken advantage of by male teachers?
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Reply #6 - Aug 12th, 2017 at 6:22pm
 
bogarde73 wrote on Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:35am:
I don't see it as anything like, nothing at all like some old guy having sex ............ an underage girl (or boy).


You aren't alone. There seems to be quite a contradictory (hypocritical?) modern view on this issue. When it happens to an under age girl it is seen as predatory. When it happens to an underage boy it is seen as his dreams coming true.

I think the reason for this contradiction is that it is a cultural thing. We tend to see young girls as innocent and the weaker sex and we do tend to see them more as victims.

In medieval times the situation would have been reversed. The popular perception of women at this time was that they were full of sin and led men astray. 
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Reply #7 - Aug 12th, 2017 at 6:27pm
 
The_Barnacle wrote on Aug 12th, 2017 at 6:22pm:
bogarde73 wrote on Aug 10th, 2017 at 10:35am:
I don't see it as anything like, nothing at all like some old guy having sex ............ an underage girl (or boy).


You aren't alone. There seems to be quite a contradictory (hypocritical?) modern view on this issue. When it happens to an under age girl it is seen as predatory. When it happens to an underage boy it is seen as his dreams coming true.

I think the reason for this contradiction is that it is a cultural thing. We tend to see young girls as innocent and the weaker sex and we do tend to see them more as victims.

In medieval times the situation would have been reversed. The popular perception of women at this time was that they were full of sin and led men astray. 


I agree yet would add another variable.

A man or boy is perceived to be naturally connected to sex above all things. Aside from the men i know being generally offended by that, society views a teenager exploited by his teacher as a super stud.

One of the many down sides to this is not responding appropriately when men and boys are sexually assaulted.

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Reply #8 - Aug 13th, 2017 at 4:30am
 
Who does not lose their virginity before they are 16 years old, these days?
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Reply #9 - Aug 13th, 2017 at 5:48am
 
UnSubRocky wrote on Aug 13th, 2017 at 4:30am:
Who does not lose their virginity before they are 16 years old, these days?


Or our days. I turned 16 in 1975, last week of autumn.

edit: It's been winter ever since!  Grin
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