There is no such thing really as Alpha or Beta males.
Alpha males may dominate Beta males (for this discussion's sake I use the words) - in say 'Achievement',
but the Beta males always get the 'better female' than the Alphas.
Example: Scott and Admundsen of the Antarctic
.
Scott was a Beta male and had a very good relationship with his wife. He was very much in love with her. But he was no great achiever compared to Admundsen.
Admundsen was the Achiever, but his relationships with women were as successful as Scotts attempt on the Antarctic.
I won't go into how Purple Man (neutral colour to explain a race) - it's too lengthy and tedious to explain.
But imagine, in short - how there are x8 Regions of the World and there are x8 variations of Purple Man's existence.
Four of those males are Alpha and the other 4 are Beta.
Everything 'equalises' and is balanced to accommodate all 'niches' of existence.
But basically, those Males that consider themselves as 'Alpha' always get the 'Beta' female.
Those Beta males always get the Alpha female.
Alpha males might think that's pretty cool.
But the Beta female, compared to the Alpha female is always less better looking, can't raise kids or have kids as well (problems). The type of female that makes Alpha males go
etc.
So Alpha male might get the 'trophy' and stand on the Podium, while Beta male 'gets the girl'.
Lets face it. Rugby Union males are Alpha compared to the grubs who play Rugby League. They have 'careers', rather than 'jobs'. They are better educated and have less scandals. But the females that surround NRL are better looking than those who follow Union, have more personality and are better in bed than the 'stiff' boring Union girls who are also interested in 'careers' more than a good ****.
So you have your winners and losers.
If you consider yourself an 'Alpha' male?
Then you must ask yourself 'what type' of Alpha male are you really? Because there is a part of you that is Beta as well.
Are you Alpha in Love / Beta in Power?
Are you Alpha in Power / Beta in Love?
The flaw everyone falls into is the 'There is only ONE right answer' or 'Everything is Black OR White'. It's a common problem that manifests itself a lot on this Forum.
Tennis: Remember when Gabriella Sabatini (Arg) was playing. Well she was an Alpha female compared to the uglier Steffi Graff (Beta) who always won. Just like Chris Evertt to Martina Nat' (the lesbian). Gabriella would have slept with the second place Beta male, while Alpha male holding the cup got big nosed Steffi or Martina Nat' the dyke.
So your choice. You want the Trophy or you want the Alpha female?
Alpha males and Alpha females never work out - trust me.
It's like North & North magnet heads trying to stick together. Close, but no cigar.
You want the better woman, than you better be an Beta male that has a very happy 'pussy-wipped' smile on your face and learn to write a good love story from the Antarctic.
You want the Trophy and the South Pole first. Then all that you will get is Beta females. If they are smart, then they are crap for sex, if they are better for sex than they probably don't even know how to write a letter or know where Antarctica is?
So look out there and notice now - the Alpha and Beta males ...and see exactly where it is that they are Alpha and they are Beta.
Alpha Hector was to rule Troy and marry a Beta female.
Beta Paris got to have Helen - the Alpha female.