Jovial Monk wrote on Jul 17
th, 2017 at 8:43pm:
Pretty much. His posts are monotonous, the same crap expressed in slightly different ways. Inevitably—the posts are to aggrandise horseboy.
not to aggrandise but in a "spirit of contribution".
i get what its like to be a beta male, a provider male, a nice guy, a gentleman, a sheep...because i was that guy.
i followed the script and did what society said and then was left by a woman for a total douchebag because being nice and supplicating to women simply doesnt work.
i then had to go thru some brutal retraining and do lots of experiments in the field to see what women really respond to.
and , guess what, i found a super awesome partner.
and she agrees.
women respond to a man with a spine who has good direction in life and firm personal boundaries.
and you HAVE to be like that with a woman.
if you supplicate and be a little bitch and go shopping to carry the bags and look all butt hurt, she will leave you.
Does that mean you have to act like a douchebag.
Of course not.
You will always treat your woman well.
Treat your women the same way you treat your staff.
They have to know that you are on their side, that you are a good leader BUT if they start up any BS behaviour..they are out.
if your staff know you are like that, they will respect you and they will love you and you will synergise.
if your woman knows that you wont put up with BS, you wont be clingy, needy and supplicate and if she crosses the boundaries, she's out...then she will be attracted, then you can develop that awesome relationship.
but being a butt hurt little shamed man who gets dragged to the shopping mall like a 10 yo.....how can she be attracted to a man who is behaving like an oppositional bratty child....she cant.
draw a boundary, stay on YOUR purpose, be the star of YOUR movie, have some god dammed direction in life.
this advice is given in the spirit of contribution ,
by sharing our failures with others , we give them meaning.
i think if you follow my advice (if you are a young dude) you will be much better off then if you buy a flash car, a flash watch and try to 'trick ' the girl into "liking" you the way that social conditioning seems to suggest