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Using members personal traumas
May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm
 
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.
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Reply #1 - May 19th, 2017 at 8:37pm
 
Why?  You have made your decision.  Stick with it.  Why do you want it debated?

Peccary is under a ban at the moment for not breaching a Rule....he was obnoxious, I agree, but so have many been obnoxious.

That needs to be addressed as well.

Otherwise, I agree.  Why ought 'Family' be used as a poke in the eye....including that my Wife is Indian, which is certainly not a 'wound.'
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Reply #2 - May 19th, 2017 at 8:41pm
 
Aussie wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:37pm:
Why?  You have made your decision.  Stick with it.  Why do you want it debated?

Peccary is under a ban at the moment for not breaching a Rule....he was obnoxious, I agree, but so have many been obnoxious.

That needs to be addressed as well.

Otherwise, I agree.  Why ought 'Family' be used as a poke in the eye....including that my Wife is Indian, which is certainly not a 'wound.'


Because some members might want to get something off their chest about it, like you. Thanks Aussie, your input is noted.
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Reply #3 - May 19th, 2017 at 8:54pm
 
Does this include stating that members are on welfare?  Or "should get a job"?  Losing a job is pretty traumatic.
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Reply #4 - May 19th, 2017 at 8:59pm
 
stunspore wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:54pm:
Does this include stating that members are on welfare?  Or "should get a job"?  Losing a job is pretty traumatic.


Would you really consider that a personal trauma? I've lost a job and never felt traumatised by it.

I've stated what I consider personal trauma. If you think losing a loved one is less traumatic than losing a job or smashing your beloved SLR...

Let's not try and trivialise this.
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Reply #5 - May 19th, 2017 at 9:17pm
 
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


Very well said.

I totally agree.
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Reply #6 - May 19th, 2017 at 9:34pm
 
Lord Herbert wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 9:17pm:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


Very well said.

I totally agree.


You wrote etc. I want to make sure what is part of this probable limited list.

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Reply #7 - May 19th, 2017 at 9:54pm
 
stunspore wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 9:34pm:
Lord Herbert wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 9:17pm:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


Very well said.

I totally agree.


You wrote etc. I want to make sure what is part of this probable limited list.



Don't worry Stun, it won't include smashing the Kingswood, your boss firing you, your iphone battery dying, or your other first world problems. It will include rapes, deaths of family, divorces, children not being able to be accessed, real personal traumas, not first world probs.

If that's not clear enough I guess you'll just have to test the waters.
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Reply #8 - May 20th, 2017 at 10:39am
 
So calling members names or using nicknames is ok.  But saying something about your mother, etc isn't?
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Reply #9 - May 20th, 2017 at 11:15am
 
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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Reply #10 - May 20th, 2017 at 12:43pm
 
Ajax wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 11:15am:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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What if the "members personal traumas" are fantasized or invented?

You have no knowledge of the truth of anybody's claims on this forum.
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Reply #11 - May 20th, 2017 at 6:00pm
 
Unforgiven wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 12:43pm:
Ajax wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 11:15am:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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What if the "members personal traumas" are fantasized or invented?

You have no knowledge of the truth of anybody's claims on this forum.


Does it matter? Using that sort of info against someone is low and I'll not tolerate it. If you want to get down in the gutter and use it against someone, true or not, you have problems if you sink that low.

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Reply #12 - May 20th, 2017 at 6:24pm
 
Setanta wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 6:00pm:
Unforgiven wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 12:43pm:
Ajax wrote on May 20th, 2017 at 11:15am:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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What if the "members personal traumas" are fantasized or invented?

You have no knowledge of the truth of anybody's claims on this forum.


Does it matter? Using that sort of info against someone is low and I'll not tolerate it. If you want to get down in the gutter and use it against someone, true or not, you have problems if you sink that low.



Space in the Ozpolitic gutter is at a premium. The gutter is full of rednecks and conservatives.
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Reply #13 - May 21st, 2017 at 7:46pm
 
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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Reply #14 - May 21st, 2017 at 9:12pm
 
The Mechanic wrote on May 21st, 2017 at 7:46pm:
Setanta wrote on May 19th, 2017 at 8:17pm:
I'd like to say make it clear that using members personal traumas they may have suffered, rape, deaths in family etc against them in any way will be considered by me to be extreme personal abuse.

You may hold the view that they should not publicise them and that it's fair game because they do, I don't and will treat is as abuse. There is no need to dig your fingers into members personal wounds in a debate, don't do it, address the argument.

Feel free to share your views.


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