Mattyfisk wrote on Apr 29
th, 2017 at 6:49pm:
cods wrote on Apr 29
th, 2017 at 6:09pm:
Mattyfisk wrote on Apr 29
th, 2017 at 2:13pm:
... wrote on Apr 29
th, 2017 at 12:09pm:
We need to keep our eyes on the goal here. Ice addicts dont usually force their kids to take ice. Theyre not ingesting anything harmful, so in efect the kids are just getting a lesson in self reliance.
Compare this to real insidious dangers like vegans, who actively work to deny their children the nutrients they need to thrive, while filling their bodies with toxic food substitutes.
Neglect vs active harm - its obvious which is the lesser of two evils.
It's not so much what the drug does, but what people do with it. The sleepless nights are the worst. The hoarding, the people coming and going, the constant arguments and parties and dramas, the lack of routine.
Amphetamines encourage all these things.
We've all done it. It's probably the worst drug for bringing up kids. Alcohol is next.
I can't see much of a problem with pot or opiates. Amphetamines are inherently fake - fake happy moods, fake chatter, and after a few nights up, fake hallucinations and paranoia.
Kids on the other hand, are inherently authentic. They say what they think. They don't get caught up in ideologies or theories. They trust. They take things as they come.
It must be horrible as a kid watching a parent becoming so fake after a blast of ice, and then having to deal with their loud, relentless obsessions.
well this cookie hasnt .. smoking norm ciggies was my personal addiction...
I am not so sure about HARMLESS karmal surely anything with put in our bodies that doesnt imitate what your body already produces
is harmful....I like to think the first part of our bodies harmed is the brain....
but what would I know...but its what I tell anyone thats young why they shouldnt use anything like that unless they want brain damage.
karmal this thread is about removing children...from these homes......are you confident they would be safe with these... selfish parents..??
You don't remove children from functional parents who use drugs, dear. The majority of Ice users are the weekend party crowd.
In child protection, you remove children from parental abuse and/or neglect. Drugs only contribute to this. In themselves,
they are not a problem - unlike, for example, driving under the influence. Do this, and you lose your license.
Most people use one drug or another at some point in their life, legal or not. This shouldn't disqualify you from being a parent.
well you seem very knowledgeable on the subject my knowledge is very limited.... so I have no choice but to believe you
but my concern is for the children..
because no matter how bad a parent is for the child to be taken away is extremely traumatic....at the time....
so it isnt and shouldnt be done lightly..
what do you mean my functional parents??? karmal...
from what we see today parents using drugs have no inhibitions and do not seem to carry a guilt complex....
how can you say drugs are harmless unless you are driving???
no one is suggesting anyone who experiments taking drugs should never be a parent...
its the ADDICTS that are the problem....
I dont want to see illegal drugs made legal but at the same time what we are doing is not working either ./.
so maybe a middle road somewhere....
so whats the plan then open drug houses for those wanting to experience the pleasures..
wonder what age they will start them at.. isnt it against the law to sell cigarettes/alcohol to kids....so will they have to wait until they are 18... which I cant see happening...although it could be worth a try...
I am lucky I dont see the drug scene I only read about it......but I have read about the neglect and babies being born addicted...this cant be good.