aquascoot wrote on Jan 23
rd, 2017 at 7:38am:
cods wrote on Jan 23
rd, 2017 at 6:59am:
aqua I do not stoop to their level that gets me through...
this thread isnt about WHY BOTHER
that is because the original thread didnt get a mention...
it was immediately turned a cods thread.. like it is now...
quite a vicious one actually.... I seem to trigger a need for some to get into the pits before they can speak..rather sadly....its called cyber bullying...
I believe they have very sad lives....
I too have been cruel and unkind on here... and then I go away and I find no pleasure in doing that at all.its not who I am...
...I stick up for others on here who I see unfairly treated...and so do a few others.....so thats a bit rewarding.....
the bullies need shaming....no good lecturing them aqua they dont understand that stuff....
they remind me of those little boys who would poke at an animal in a cage with a stick for amusement ....
.. so bwave..
Bullies are people who are in pain.
often this pain is because they had dreams at one stage and their dreams are shattered and they go into pain.
(most people just go into a sort of mild depression where they just look beaten down by life...but some resist this and they live in pain).
Now, a bully in pain, needs to feed this pain...if you want to you can read the excellent works by Ekhardt Tolle on this subject....most people have what ekhardt calls a "pain body".
And this is part of their identity.
And it has to be fed...they literally have no choice (if they are not willing to do personal development and most people post pictures of horse poop when i suggest they do).
Why do they do that?
because we love the familiar.
We literally love our pain.
We love to complain and be negative.
People , who are addicted to pain, can be cruel and negative and hateful for hours.
Put them in an uplifting positive environment and they will literally want to throw up in 3 minutes.
Sit them down with an inspirational book and they will be sleepy in 3 minutes.
emotional states are SOOOOO addictive.
its why cods, it is SOOOO vital that you dont get sucked into "their' pain or you are just creating "your " pain.
and then you will have to feed that as well.
Its why when bad things happen...from bullying thru to people driving cars over babies...we either associate with the pain and we become a victim and we go down, or we take a lesson in pain, we work out a path of action and we grow.
Most people will just associate with the pain and become a victim, because taking action always requires more effort.
dont lecture aqua its too early...
I WILL STAND UP FOR MYSELF>.
sorry if I am weak by doing that...
I do not do it lightly... if I disagree show me what evidence you have thats all I ask for..
people that jump in and abuse you with the vilest of language....because they can...
need shaming.....banning isnt the answer as they usually belong to more than one forum..
openly shame them for what they are.. COWARDS...
I would love to meet them in public and let them say it to my face......but this type of COWARD wouldnt show up....
I find them disgusting and I am prepared to say it on here and to their face......
I am also prepared not to go within 500 meters of them if they will accord me the same respect.
I dont follow them around when I see their name I go in the opposite direction...
however they do seem to have a need to follow me around....and thats sick.