John Smith wrote on Sep 30
th, 2016 at 8:08am:
Frank wrote on Sep 29
th, 2016 at 8:22pm:
You seem to be very eager to confuse legal with real. Even if the law says they are married, nobody else will think they are married, only that they are 'married'.
I think it is you who is confused, the whole discussion is about LEGAL RECOGNITION, it's not about wether or not they can screw each other. After all, most of them that decide they want to marry probably don't give a crap what you or anyone else thinks. I know I didn't stop to consider how you would feel when I got married, just as I doubt you stopped to think about how I would feel when you married (assuming you are married).
OK
The crux of the matter is the LEGALITY of being a couple.
I understand this and wholeheartedly agree that they must be accepted as a couple and that they must have equal rights.
Anything other than this is not acceptable.
What I disagree with is the term Marriage.
Marriage is a joining of a man and a woman in the legal and religious rights of holy matrimony.
No Bible, Koran, Tora or any other religious teaching advocated the joining of a man and a man or a woman a and woman.
In fact they generally oppose it.
Therefore, why could not the gays accept another term for the joining of two same sex couples?
Why does it have to be marriage?
Are they simply trying to rub religions nose in it?
Why would they want to use a term opposed to what they are?
It makes no sense.
Call it Birriage or Gayarriage or some such, just leave the word Marriage alone.