The following extracts from this site tell us that sex with boys seems to be wide spread.E.G.: that the practice, called “bacha bazi” — literally “boy play” – is the secret everyone knows with comments that it’s been around for 1000 years so why do we want to raise it now….. (My pet Jawa 2008)
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And let’s not forget those immortal youths there to serve the Muslim male in paradise –
***koran sura 56.17-18 They shall recline on jewelled couches face to face, and there shall wait on them immortal youths with bowls and ewers and a cup of purest wine ……..
***koran sura 52.24 And there shall wait on them (the Muslim faithful males) young boys of their own, as fair as virgin pearls.
***koran sura 76.19 They shall be attended by boys graced with eternal youth, who will seem like scattered pearls to the beholders.
If they aren’t for sex why are they so erotically described?
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Dancing Boys and the sexual abuse of children:The “bacha bereesh,” or boys without beards, may dress up as girls and dance for male patrons at parties in northern Afghanistan.
“Every boy tries to be the first. They are dressed in women’s clothes, have bells on their feet and have artificial breasts,” said Mohammad Yawar, a former mujahideen fighter against the Taliban and resident of the northern town of Pul-e Khumri. (Reuters 2008)
“Everyone tries to have the best, most handsome and good-looking boy,” said a former mujahideen commander, who
declined to be named. (Reuters 2008)
The article describes men who prefer boys to their wives and the rape of young boys.
Ahmad Jawad, aged 17, has been with a wealthy landowner for the past two years. “I am used to it. I love my lord. I love to dance and act like a woman and play with my owner,” he said. Asked what he would do when he got older, he said: “Once I grow up, I will be an owner and I will have my own boys.” (Reuters 2008)
There is a host more on the above site I believe it's widespread and fully accepted as the secret everybody knows about
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Then we have Muslim Man on Muslim Boy LoveThis subject is close to the hearts of many Muslims, and so, I feel it is my responsiblity to explain
what is acceptable in an Islamic context of man on boy love. First let us begin with the ETERNAL promises of Allah as provided by the Messenger:
Quran 52:24 "..Round about them will serve, (devoted) to them, young male servants (handsome) as Pearls well-guarded..."
Also in Surah 76:19 Allah promises fresh youths to Muslim men: "...And round about them shall go youths never altering in age; when you see them you will think them to be scattered pearls..."
Before we begin, you have to understand is that Western, man-made legal systems, (that have no basis in truth, because they are not sanctioned by Allah), put all the stress on the protection of the weaker members of the society, especially women and children. However, this is the first fallacy of man-made laws.
Infidels put stress on on protecting those that cannot wage Jihad, and have little use to Allah other than making babies and serving Muslim men. Whereas in the case of the Islamic legal system it is the opposite.
Allah has rightfully created the Islamic legal system (Sharia) to benefit those that fight in his name, namely Sharia is in the service of strong virile, productive men. Allah is merciful as he is gernerous in bestowing rights and the bounty of pleasures for those that fight in his Jihad.In the verses about the beautiful youth of paradise, he nurtured in Muslims, a liking for sodomizing young boys. (see the Quranic quotes at the top of this post). All Muslims know that homosexuality is forbidden, however, we also know that this infraction is less serious than fornication with an unwed girl.
As you see Allah likened the young boys to pearls, in the same way as he did with Houris, pearl in Arabic poetry is a feminine sexual symbol.
Islam considers boys and women as of the same gender hence a woman is considered a minor all her life in Islam (first she is the property of her father, then, her husband, and finally her son).
A woman is never considered an "adult" in the Western sense. Thus the confusion. However the feminine status of a boy is temporary and it ends with growing a beard. Islam does not consider it as sexual abuse but rather a mere PLAY as described in the following hadeeth, narrated by Bukhari.
What you must understand is the mercy of Allah and his Messenger, because if a Muslim man sodomizes a young boy, is not permitted to marry his mother[b]. See this hadith at: The Sahih Collection of al-Bukhari - Book of Marriage - SunniPath
[b] "...As for whom ever plays with a boy: if there is full penetration, then he shall not marry his mother..." With the JUSTICE that Islam affords, I think it is pretty clear that no crime in the eyes of Allah has been committed, but
the pleasure that a brave Muslim warrior has received from a young boy is the will of Allah! Look to the famous Islamic scholar and Jurist Imam ibn al-Jawzi (died 1200) said boldly : "He who claims that he experiences no sexual desire when looking at beautiful young boys is a liar