cods wrote on Aug 26
th, 2015 at 2:55pm:
aquascoot wrote on Aug 26
th, 2015 at 2:04pm:
Most modern men dont understand women.
They think women want equality etc etc but women really want a strong man to "take care of shiit"
This then is the problem.
Men have become too needy and clingy and hang around women like "people pleasers" when what women really want is a confident man, a leader, some one to "make up their minds for them"
So now both women and men are confused.
one thing is for sure.
A man who is less confident then his woman is basicly useless to her.
In politics we see this playing out right now.
Abbott lacks confidence. and therefore he is basicly useless to a woman (and most men who live in cities have begun to become very feminine, so i'm happy to class them as women as well ).
without confidence you are nothing.
men are the natural leaders.
until this is acknowledged, expect more dysfunction
I prefer to think we all have something to offer each other..
I prefer to think one enhances the other...
I prefer to think we work side by side for the common cause..
I prefer to think what one is lacking in the other makes up for..
I prefer to think this isnt a contest.
this is the way I think..
before you go looking ozzie.. I didnt plagiarize it.all m y own work.
Not too bad Cods.
A little bit of a recipe for co-dependancy but i can go with that.
the problem stems from women not really knowing their own minds as they are more emotional creatures.
Women DO like strong men and women DO like a confident male .
But they have trouble admitting that.
a lot of high powered women , in particular, really appreciate a decisive dominant confident man at home.
This way they can just relax and be "girly and nurturing"
This is my experience.
I know it sounds chauvanistic but i genuinely believe that men are better leaders and that women who fall into leadership roles are really "faking it ' to a certain extent.
It doesnt come naturally to them.
You see a male achieving in the business world and he's just soaking it all up, going from strength to strength. unstoppable,
You see a woman achieving in the business world and there's always a deeper story. trying to win daddy's approval, using anger at other males as a motivation. there is , by definition, a degree of dysfunction to it.
Maybe in 500 years we'll be biologically , socially and psychologically different but , right now, when it comes to leadership men are better.
Women are better in many other fields and we can get to those later