Phemanderac wrote on Oct 16
th, 2014 at 6:55am:
I doubt Andrei will respond to be honest.
As an observer to this stuff cods (and I already know you won't like this perspective), I don't think you and JS are behaving all that differently to each other.
Case in point "I didn't start it..."
Interestingly enough, JS reckons he "didn't start it either..."
I also noted, before the thread was hacked to pieces it seems... You did launch at Aussie calling him a "coward" and then justified it by saying, it's the "Truth"....
It may be "your" truth, but surely you realise that you are not the arbiter for everyone's truth. At the end of the day, anyone can be abusive and claim the "it's the truth" defence, however, that is merely not accepting any responsibility for one's own behaviour.
Ironically, JS put it well, as he said, he can "get down in the gutter if he thinks he needs to..."
I would say that is saying that he will deliberately choose to be nasty (and noticeably unapologetically) if he feels justified, you know, like if it is "his" truth...
In short, I reckon if we are ALL honest and deem a behaviour to be inappropriate, then there is no justification for adopting said inappropriate behaviour...
Meh, I feel like I am having deja vu here...
Good luck.
thanks phem and I have never said you or anyone else is not entitled to an opinion...
I am sure you are correct as we rarely see ourselves as others see us...
my reference to me not startin g it.. goes back years...but I wont explain..as it only makes things worse..
I was really trying to find an answer to this problem...yes your right I did call aussie a coward...but when he locked the original Important PM on relationships rather than answer myself...
thats all I could think of...
you seem to note any comments I make.. but never mention the reasons why??...
so you think what is dished out to myself is justified even though I have had no input and reason for the comments??... like the constant comments I drink for instance...thats ok with you...
all I would request is that maybe you investigate why I am saying what I am saying...research the reason behind my comments which you seem to take an avid interest in.as so far I havent seen you comment on others with the same in depth observations...
like how I hacked the thread to pieces, thanks for that..
comments about my dead husband are justified I take it..