Individuals awakening to the truth of balance but who have lived up to now according to strict third dimensional beliefs regarding the roles of men and women, will greatly fear stepping out of the mold. When a person’s family, friends, church, etc. still hold tightly to gender concepts, his awakening must be done quietly within himself. If he does not resist, his consciousness will gently begin to open and shift into a new and higher understanding of the true roles of men and women.
Accepting the feminine as being just as important as the masculine can be an overwhelming process for those raised in societies that promote males as being more valuable than females. However, many are now ready to understand and accept the vital importance of the Divine Mother energy–the receptive, intuitive, creative, unconditional love energies manifesting on all levels–physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Likewise, of equal value and importance are the energies of the Divine masculine–the active, the be-er, the do-er, the thinker. These facets of Divine Father energy are equally necessary to the complete and whole expression of God. They are meant to work in tandem with the feminine so that all actions are tempered with unconditional love.
A balanced woman looks and acts feminine but respects herself, is able to say no, acknowledges her own innate power, and is not afraid to take charge when necessary with actions that reflect the needs, not wants, of all involved. A balanced man is one who makes decisions and enjoys the activities of the masculine but is not afraid to love and be loved, respects others, and does not feel the need to dominate in order to experience self worth.
We do not speak of women trying to be men, or men trying to be women. We speak of mankind’s’ evolution into spiritual wholeness through the acceptance and expression of both halves of the Divine Whole. A balanced woman will continue to look and behave in feminine ways just as the balanced man will continue to act and look masculine, but once both centers are open (left brain and heart) they will be able to live and express both aspect in every situation.
The third dimensional consciousness continues to promote through movies, TV, periodicals, games, and advertising, concepts of “real men” as only those who are tough, dominant, and powerful without consideration of who may be hurt in the process. Many still accept these myths which for the most part are promoted by those who stand to benefit in some way from their continuation.
The reason there are so many military suicides at this time is that after making commitments in the enthusiasm of service, these dear ones often find themselves experiencing great inner conflict because their hearts have begun to open or are already open. They are called heroes back home and fear to disappoint families, friends, and all those dear to them who still hold beliefs of war and violence as being viable solutions. They can find no way out of their dilemma, and so take the only solution they know.
The media continues to promote concepts of the ideal woman as being physically perfect and beautiful but somewhat brainless and in need a man to be of any value. The ideal man is promoted as being physically strong and powerful, taking charge of every situation in “his” way as well as being rich and handsome, and together they live happily ever after. These concepts are quickly disappearing for the majority, but there are still many, even among the evolved, who think of themselves as being “half of a couple” and in need of the “right one” in order to feel whole.
You are and always have been whole and complete with or without another person. Never forget that. Many who have entered in to relationships believing that they would find forever happiness and completeness are now learning the necessary lessons of self-completeness the hard way, through difficult experiences.
There must come to every evolving soul, a time of balancing the masculine and feminine energies that are already present in their fullness within every individual. The masculine self protecting and supporting the feminine self and the feminine self loving and receptive to the ideas of the masculine self, neither subservient to the other.
Over lifetimes of experiences based in duality and separation, individuals learned that life was less painful if they closed their hearts which has resulted in the creations of imbalance you witness in the world today. Much is being written and channeled with regard to having an open heart. These are not just pretty words, for the heart is where the Divine Feminine rests until recognized.
An open heart in balance with the masculine allows the soul to live in its fullness instead of as only a half.
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