True Colours wrote on Aug 6
th, 2013 at 10:00pm:
The Arabic word for rape is 'ightisaab".
Is that the word that is used in all those verses you claim prohibit rape? Or any of them?
Quote:So Islam says a wide does not have the right to deny her husband sex. So you translate that to mean that husband has the right to rape his wife. That is ridiculous.
No it isn't. Why do you think you are incapable of stating what the punishment is for raping your broad or sex slave? Why are you incapable of giving a single example from all of Islam's history of a Muslim being punished under Islamic law for raping his wife or sex slave? It's because Islam considers sex to be a man's right and a woman's responsibility. Consider for a moment how hard it is to get a rape conviction in the west. Now add onto this a culture that does not even recognise the need for the woman's consent and a preference for arranged marriage or sex slavery. What do you end up with? You end up with state endorsed, institutionalised rape with a moral loophole for Muslims to claim that it is forbidden, even though it actually isn't. At best Islam permits it, but wrings it's hands and says it's not very nice. At worst, it openly endorses it as part of the empire building process.
Quote:It is like saying this: Australian laws says you don't have the right to murder someone. Therefore if someone murders your relative you have the right to take vigilante revenge action.
It is nothing like that at all.
Quote:What does Islam actually say? Only that if a wife denies her husband sex, then she is making a sin.
In other words, it says nothing about rape. It does not even recognise rape as a crime. Do you really think that anything other than specifically endorsing rape counts as forbidding it?
Quote:Just like if a husband denied his wife food he would be in the wrong.
No TC, that is not the same thing.
Quote:Let's think about for a second. How on Earth does the wife refuse to have sex with her husband for the whole night if as you claim Islam permits marital rape.
By beating him with a frypan? Is this really the closest thing you can find to Islam outlawing rape?
Quote:The word used is "tap"
No it isn't. We have been over this. Translating it as tap simply does not make sense, and the only argument given in favour of that translation is that it is 'linguistically possible' - so long as you completely ignore the context.
Quote:Even this is just an opinion of a man and there is no verse in the Quran or hadeeth saying that a husband should beat a wife for refusing sex.
Nor is there a verse saying the opposite. There are however several hadiths endorsing wife beating and saying that a husband shall not be asked the reason why he beat his wife.
Quote:On the contrary, the Quran and hadeeth emphasise kind treatment of women.
Sure they do. It also permits beating them. That is like emphasising not raping women, but permitting it. Or emphasising not stealing, but permitting it. Emphasising is not the same thing as forbidding.
Quote:The word used in the Quran is 'bagaa' which means both sex outside of marriage and prostitution.
Islam considers sex slavery to be like marriage. I think it was you who just explained this. In other words, Islam does not forbid the raping of sex slaves. It only forbids forcing them into sexual acts that Islam already forbids.
Quote:It also infers oppression which rape is certainly a type of.
Is that as close as you can get to Islam forbidding rape? Inferring that oppression is forbidden?
Quote:eg. God does not hold the forced women as blameworthy.
How does your sick mind twist it round to somehow mean that rape is allowed?
It seems pretty obvious to me. The closest thing you can find to Islam outlawing the rape of sex slaves is a verse that forbids prostituting them out, but offers forgiveness for the woman and fails to even acknowledge the crime committed by the man. It's like the verse about the beaten wife that complains to Muhammed about it, then the Koran completely ignores the fact that she is beaten because there is some trivial issue that is more important. And because the Koran does not specifically state the man was not punished for beating his wife, Muslims insist this means he was.