Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 19
th, 2010 at 11:28pm:
I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate anyone saying that you shouldn't be trusted because of the above passage ..
- Axle
I seriously couldn't care less to be brutally honest.
The fact remains .. on THIS very topic Abu has stated:
Islam supports physical discipline in extreme cases where a wife takes to rebelliousness and does not listen to her husband.
To which I responded thus:
And there you have it .. take a good hard look at it everyone ..
the practice of physically abusing another family member is masked under the euphemism and cover of PHYSICAL DISCIPLINE
.. and under what EXTREME circumstances???
in extreme cases where a wife takes to rebelliousness and does not listen to her husband.
I rest my case.
And I hold my head up high as a proud Australian woman because I have the courage of my conviction to stand up against this type of religious institutionalisation of domestic violence.
Oh and the encouraging thing in all this???
Irrespective of what Islam states or what Abu has stated above ... THE LAW OF AUSTRALIA .. THE COUNTRY OF MY BIRTH and CITIZENSHIP PROTECTS ME AS AN AUSTRALIAN WOMAN AGAINST THIS RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONALIZATION OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE .. and as such I am able to press charges against my "husband" and he may even be sent to prison IF he lays a finger on me.
THAT IS WHERE THIS TOPIC IS AT RIGHT NOW....
Thank you for making me fully acquainted with your stance. Now I'll give you mine.
I entered into the topic and stated that the only people who should reasonably be allowed to hold their heads high are those who do not engage in domestic violence. I would therefore say that any Muslims, Christians, Unionists, footballers or netballers etc who do not resort to physical or verbal abuse of their partners are to be lauded. However, I would not be so unreasonable as to assert that physical or verbal abuse has the assent of an entire religion.
I did say that I did a search on whether or not Islam condoned domestic violence. On the first page of hits there were Muslims saying that they didn't condone it with apparent reliance on their teachings.
I went on to say that probably most people if asked would denounce DV. However, the reality is that DV is rife in Australia across the board. Otherwise, I wouldn't have seen the point in the government launching an anti-domestic violence campaign if it wasn't a significant issue.
I find the fingerpointing a futile exercise. There's no point in saying one group condones it and another doesn't because the reality of it is that concrete individuals are perpetrating it in virtually all groups you care to name let alone religion.
In as far as anyone condoning physical or verbal abuse then I'm against such declarations.
I did note that Abu made a distinction. He said that Islam condones physical discipline of wives but he himself did not. I have no reason at this point to doubt what he says about himself. I take it, therefore, if you similarly don't have any reasonable doubt about his honesty then your attack, in as far as it is on him, is without foundation.
However, in as far as his understanding of Islam is concerned you have grounds.
Now whether you have grounds in saying that DV is institutionalised within Islam. I think you might be on less solid ground.From my internet search it would appear, on a cursory glance that this view that DV is acceptable is not universally held amongst Muslims.
Therefore, at this point, I would not be resting any case against Islam as a whole. In fact, like in any group, you would expect to find a diversity of interpretations, selected references to justify any particular stances, and practices.
I think it's pointless to rail against a religion and that there is merit in looking at what any particular person does, says or condones.