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Reply #120 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:56am
 
Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:43am:
I'd say you'd have all sorts of groups that would like to impose their ideas on "us" against our "will".

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Axle .. the LAW of Australia imposes itself on our behaviour and our will here in Australia.

A major concern/inherent conflict which we've looked at in this topic is this .. we cannot allow particular religious/cultural groups or enclaves within our society here in Australia .. demand/expect exemptions from the law esp wrt to crime.


That particular comment was used for something Freediver said that was not related to DV.  You've totally wrenched it out of its context.
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Reply #121 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:57am
 
Axle, I would appreciate it if you could quote me properly/correctly.

THIS is what I actually stated:


Axle .. when individuals take a stance against a criminal act (in this instance domestic violence) .. how on earth does that translate to taking "a holier than thou" position in your mind?

A protest against something illegal is simply that .. a protest. What has made THIS particular instance even more amazing is the fact that the particular acts of domestic violence we've been examining .. have been religiously institutionalised, euphemised (into terms such as wife discipline) and thus maintained and protected WITHIN AUSTRALIA.

The other interesting point I'd like to highlight is this .. OUR LAWS here in Australia contravene these acts of domestic violence.

As an Australian citizen .. I have every right to be concerned and to voice my protest against all this.

If you wish to brand me holier than thou for doing so then meh .. I can live with that.

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Reply #122 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:05am
 
In as far as the finger is pointed at Muslims as the only perpetrators of this act then it's being holier than thou ..

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Umm if you care to read my post yet again.. you will notice that I never mentioned the word MUSLIM. That may possibly be because I'm more concerned with the contravention of Australian law aspect and how the crime in question has been euphemised/hidden/protected within Australia.

Oh and could you please read the topic of the title again .. I am hoping the penny will drop insofar as discussion context is concerned.


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Reply #123 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:07am
 
Axle wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:56am:
Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:43am:
I'd say you'd have all sorts of groups that would like to impose their ideas on "us" against our "will".

- Axle (to Free Diver)


Axle .. the LAW of Australia imposes itself on our behaviour and our will here in Australia.

A major concern/inherent conflict which we've looked at in this topic is this .. we cannot allow particular religious/cultural groups or enclaves within our society here in Australia .. demand/expect exemptions from the law esp wrt to crime.


That particular comment was used for something Freediver said that was not related to DV.  You've totally wrenched it out of its context.



No I haven't .. if anything .. I've brought it back in line with this discussion and the topic title which IS THE CONTEXT within which we should be posting.
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Reply #124 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:12am
 
Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:57am:
Axle, I would appreciate it if you could quote me properly/correctly.

THIS is what I actually stated:


Axle .. when individuals take a stance against a criminal act (in this instance domestic violence) .. how on earth does that translate to taking "a holier than thou" position in your mind?

A protest against something illegal is simply that .. a protest. What has made THIS particular instance even more amazing is the fact that the particular acts of domestic violence we've been examining .. have been religiously institutionalised, euphemised (into terms such as wife discipline) and thus maintained and protected WITHIN AUSTRALIA.

The other interesting point I'd like to highlight is this .. OUR LAWS here in Australia contravene these acts of domestic violence.

As an Australian citizen .. I have every right to be concerned and to voice my protest against all this.

If you wish to brand me holier than thou for doing so then meh .. I can live with that.



I'm not altogether sure that it has been religiously institutionalised. There are articles on the net  from Muslim scholars that don't  take that view. Of course, there may be others who do condone it. But let's be fair about this, and I made a similar point earlier.,you will find a diverse range of opinion - agreeable and disagreeable - in large groups.

And I have already stated that DV is not ok and it is to be denounced.

What I find obnoxious from some commentary here is the  underlying subtext of stereotyping. Muslims aren't one big monolithic group  in which everyone in it thinks the same.

In as far as you have particular Muslim groups or individuals that condone DV , then , sure , speak up against it.


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Reply #125 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:16am
 
Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:05am:
In as far as the finger is pointed at Muslims as the only perpetrators of this act then it's being holier than thou ..

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Umm if you care to read my post yet again.. you will notice that I never mentioned the word MUSLIM. That may possibly be because I'm more concerned with the contravention of Australian law aspect and how the crime in question has been euphemised/hidden/protected within Australia.

Oh and could you please read the topic of the title again .. I am hoping the penny will drop insofar as discussion context is concerned.




I was referring to some things that have been going on in this thread.
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Reply #126 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:22am
 
Lisa Jones wrote on Oct 30th, 2010 at 12:57am:
Axle, I would appreciate it if you could quote me properly/correctly.



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THIS is what I actually stated:


Axle .. when individuals take a stance against a criminal act (in this instance domestic violence) .. how on earth does that translate to taking "a holier than thou" position in your mind?

A protest against something illegal is simply that .. a protest. What has made THIS particular instance even more amazing is the fact that the particular acts of domestic violence we've been examining .. have been religiously institutionalised, euphemised (into terms such as wife discipline) and thus maintained and protected WITHIN AUSTRALIA.

The other interesting point I'd like to highlight is this .. OUR LAWS here in Australia contravene these acts of domestic violence.

As an Australian citizen .. I have every right to be concerned and to voice my protest against all this.

If you wish to brand me holier than thou for doing so then meh .. I can live with that.
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Reply #127 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 1:24am
 
I'm not altogether sure that it has been religiously institutionalised. There are articles on the net from Muslim scholars that don't  take that view. Of course, there may be others who do condone it. But let's be fair about this, and I made a similar point earlier.,you will find a diverse range of opinion - agreeable and disagreeable - in large groups.

- Axle


I strongly suggest you read back through this topic and those surrounding it .. you may find it will enlighten you as to who is apparently allowed to comment/interpret what certain religious texts state.

And I have already stated that DV is not ok and it is to be denounced.

- Axle


That's not what's at issue in this discussion. However .. it's still good to see you concur with Australian law.

What I find obnoxious from some commentary here is the  underlying subtext of stereotyping. Muslims aren't one big monolithic group  in which everyone in it thinks the same.

- Axle


Perhaps you're confusing the particular context within which this discussion is functioning (hence my earlier remarks in reference to the topic title).

In as far as you have particular Muslim groups or individuals that condone DV , then , sure , speak up against it.

- Axle


Actually .. I'm against and will protest against ANY group or individual who condones DV.
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Reply #128 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 9:07am
 
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You keep putting words in my mouth. Could you please refrain from doing that. It's a neat trick to keep inventing what someone else has said but it's a crooked one.


I'm just trying to figure out what you are trying to say Axle. For example, you said the following:

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What I'm basically saying, to use the vernacular, is that taking a holier than thou position is total BS.


in reference to someone who promotes the legalisation of domestic violence. I am at a loss to figure out what this means, if not claiming we shouldn't take the moral high ground. Perhaps you should explain, rather than criticising others for having no idea what you are on about.

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You made a fallacious generalisation though.


How about you stick to the one I actually made then?

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I think this has been entirely pushed out of context and has turned into a straw man. In as far as the finger is pointed at Muslims as the only perpetrators of this act then it's being holier than thou. It's rife in society.


Axle, the finger is being pointed at everyone who promotes wife beating. It's just so happens that muslims are the only people doing so. If you recall, my approach to this is to let Muslims themselves decide what Islam is and to criticise them for their own views. Thus, my criticism of Abu need not have anything at all to do with Islam. He promotes wife beating. I criticise him for it. Simple. You would be hard pressed to find other people promoting wife beating, and I think you would find that Australians in general would be more openly critical of a non-Muslim promoting wife beating than a Muslim promoting it. You in fact demonstrate this. If Abu was just some violent redneck wife beater you would not hold back. But because he is a Muslim you expect everyone to walk on eggshells in case Islam is tainted merely because it's followers (and Muhammed himself) promote domestic violence.

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And before some more  reinvention of what I say occurs. It's not ok and it is to be denounced


...unless it is part of a religious indoctrination, in which case you must defend the religion at the same time. It is kind of hard to denounce something when you spend all your time defending it. Even when people completely ignore the fact that Abu is a Muslim and focus only on his promotion of wife beating, you seem compelled to step in and defend Islam and place all kinds of caveates on your criticism before you can bring yourself to actually denounce anything. This is the sort of limp wristed approach to human rights that sees society stand by while the weak get beaten into submission because you are afraid of upsetting or misreprepresenting the wife beaters. You seem to think it is more important to avoid upsetting Muslim men than to protect the victims of domestic violence.

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I'm not altogether sure that it has been religiously institutionalised. There are articles on the net  from Muslim scholars that don't  take that view.


Abu also takes that view. According to him, domestic violence is not institutionalised. Islam merely allows the 'reasonable' use of force to correct a wife who has stopped listening or rebelled against her husbands commands. Abu is very shy about going into details - what you see here is the culmination of about 30 pages of discussion with him, where he occasionally lets another detail slip, only to find it backfires and makes him look even worse. I suggest that without asking your 'scholars' for the same details of what they actually mean, you don't know what they actually mean. Remember, Islam is more than a religion. It is a state, political, financial and economic system. Islam's representatives should be viewed in the same way as a politicians defending their own set of policies. Anything less is naive.

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In as far as you have particular Muslim groups or individuals that condone DV , then , sure , speak up against it.


According to Abu he is a mainstream Muslim and his views are representative.
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Reply #129 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 10:25am
 
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You keep putting words in my mouth


You'll soon find that's the only way fd and many others here know how to discuss issues.

They are adept at arguing everything you didn't say, and little that you did.
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Reply #130 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 5:50pm
 
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I'm just trying to figure out what you are trying to say Axle. For example, you said the following


I have  repeatedly explained.

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What I'm basically saying, to use the vernacular, is that taking a holier than thou position is total BS.

in reference to someone who promotes the legalisation of domestic violence. I am at a loss to figure out what this means, if not claiming we shouldn't take the moral high ground. Perhaps you should explain, rather than criticising others for having no idea what you are on about.


YOU have made the claim that Islam promotes DV . In fact, you say that it's part and parcel of their religious-political- legal philosophy. That's just a wild claim which you haven't supported. In fact, it seems from what I have found contrary to their position, at least in some quarters.  I found the following link which contradicts your assertion:

http://www.abc.net.au/religion/articles/2010/07/11/2950543.htm

I would also add that in a large religion like Islam you will obtain a diversity of opinion, interpretation, practice. This alone circumvents any attempt to tar the lot with one brush.


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You made a fallacious generalisation though.

How about you stick to the one I actually made then?


Come on mate, your whole diatribe is one gross generalisation.

It's there for anyone to see to scroll back . However, I will render it in a nutshell. You have contended that Islam's a political-religious philosophical system promotes DV.  You have also gone beyond the DV issue and have hystrionically stated that if push came to shove they would all want to see Sharia law introduced -with no evidence that would stand anywhere outside a mob with a noose. We've only got your imaginings of would be the case and maybe some odd conversations you purportedly have had with some Muslims.  

Do you see anything wrong with that? If not, then your not rationally discussing the issue.

As far as I've been able to ascertain from my net searches. There seems to be about 46 "Muslim" countries. Of that lot some have a few elements of this Sharia law, one country says that it has pure Sharia law- Saudi Arabia, and then there's probably Iran.

Yeah right, the Muslim hordes are going to give Australia Sharia law. Also given the fact that they're only about 1% of the population, it's hardly likely, is it?

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Axle, the finger is being pointed at everyone who promotes wife beating. It's just so happens that muslims are the only people doing so. If you recall, my approach to this is to let Muslims themselves decide what Islam is and to criticise them for their own views. Thus, my criticism of Abu need not have anything at all to do with Islam. He promotes wife beating
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Again, I refer you to that link on ABC.net which contradicts your assertion.  I suggest that you read it.

Umm ,no, the finger isn't being pointed at everyone who promotes it, it's being squarely pointed at Muslims as a whole and not particular Muslims . I remind you of the title you gave to this thread - "Wife Beating In Islam"- contradicts what you have said there.

In any case, I had already said near my entry into this thread that if Abu is supporting DV then he is to be criticised for it.  Again, I would point out that Muslims are a diverse lot and obviously not all of them believe that their faith or system condones DV.
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And before some more  reinvention of what I say occurs. It's not ok and it is to be denounced


...unless it is part of a religious indoctrination, in which case you must defend the religion at the same time. It is kind of hard to denounce something when you spend all your time defending it. Even when people completely ignore the fact that Abu is a Muslim and focus only on his promotion of wife beating, you seem compelled to step in and defend Islam and place all kinds of caveates on your criticism before you can bring yourself to actually denounce anything. This is the sort of limp wristed approach to human rights that sees society stand by while the weak get beaten into submission because you are afraid of upsetting or misreprepresenting the wife beaters. You seem to think it is more important to avoid upsetting Muslim men than to protect the victims of domestic violence.


Rubbish.  I have clearly stated that anyone who promotes DV is to be denounced. What part of that don't you understand? I have only taken umbrage where there has been an attempt to stereotype an entire group- which you, unfortunately, do.  

Freediver, you forgot to add that the Muslims eat their children too.  Roll Eyes

There is no standing back, as far I know Muslims in Australia are subject to the same laws as everyone else.

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In as far as you have particular Muslim groups or individuals that condone DV , then , sure , speak up against it.


According to Abu he is a mainstream Muslim and his views are representative.


According to Joe from Westboro Baptists his views are mainstream and representative. Do you reckon that we condemn all Christians on what Joe from Westboro says or just Joe and his particular nook of the Christian faith?

If Abu has said what he is accused of saying then he  falls on his own words and the same to anyone who so subscribes. But that's where it ends. Those Muslims who do not condone it should not be tarred
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Reply #131 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 7:51pm
 
OK then Axle, I challenge you to find a sinlge Muslim who is willing to say that Abu is wrong about wife beating in Islam.

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Abu what I mostly post here are questions that go unanswered. There is no need to put words into your mouth. The words coming out are more than enough, even though it is such a long time between open and frank answers.
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Reply #132 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 8:25pm
 
In any case, I had already said near my entry into this thread that if Abu is supporting DV then he is to be criticised for it.  

- Axle

What do you mean IF?? Go back and read this topic .. and the topics surrounding this one. It's unwise to jump into a topic mid stream and start telling other posters who have been travelling along in here for weeks now .. what the state of play is. And your posts to date have done just that.

You state he is to be criticized for it .. but I don't see YOU bothering to look back and read the relevant disturbing posts NOR do I see you bothering to criticise or even challenge such posts.

If anything I've only seen you sit there being apologetic and dismissive. One can hardly be blamed for concluding you're a lazy hypocrite of epic proportions.

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Reply #133 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 8:30pm
 
You'll soon find that's the only way fd and many others here know how to discuss issues.

They are adept at arguing everything you didn't say, and little that you did.

- Abu

I much prefer quoting you directly .. and so does Free Diver from what I've seen.

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Reply #134 - Oct 30th, 2010 at 8:51pm
 
Lisa,

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What do you mean IF??


Perhaps Axle is referring to statements of mine like this one:
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I've stated openly and plainly on many many occasions fd that Islam does NOT permit domestic violence and abuse, but only permits a disciplinary 'slap on the wrist'.


Where it's CLEARLY stated Islam does not permit domestic violence and abuse. Your only attempt to hang onto this argument is to try and blur the idea of a disciplinary slap on the wrist with domestic violence, and so far you've failed quite miserably.

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I much prefer quoting you directly .. and so does Free Diver from what I've seen.


Yeh we can see that...
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