oceanz wrote on May 3
rd, 2009 at 8:50pm:
I dont like weak men for instance..
http://i2.ytimg.com/vi/-23OFXzy3lI/default.jpgThen you must be a lesbian. because by the very nature of
western culture, man is to be weak or alienated.Not in my world Jim..and dont have a gay bone in my body btw.
A strong man, is a "chavunistic" man. Men who are domineering and proud of themselves are seen as a pox of some backward age.
Not in my world Jim..a strong woman ( me ) doesnt see the point of weak insipid men..
As if any recollection of the past is a sign of defeat for rights, progress, and the general well being of the nation..
The obsession with equality leads ultimately to more supramacy then if people were just admittedly preadjudice. Women don't want strong men. They want men who do what they tell them, and simply pretend to have their own thought.
OMG..so much cynicism in one so young..and thats a generalistion..
Let's say for example you have a woman who likes to party hard and go out clubbing and rub up against other people. Especialy guys. This sortof behaivor might've been acceptable when she was "on the market". But now it's not. She's in a relationship, and she should be considerate of her man's feelings. All the same, you would not expect a taken man to be going around slutting about with other women just to prove they were still hot. Yes, they do it sometimes, but that doesn't make it right now does it?
So what do women expect? They want a man who won't stop them and will just circlejerk. "Well it's her life, I can't control her actions". Like hell you can't! The strong do not make excuses. If they want something, they take it. Regardless of what other people think. Love doesn't mean you let someone do whatever the bugger they want too. Love is jealous, coveting, greedy, suspicious, and sometimes downright mean. And do you know why?
http://p-images.veoh.com/image.out?imageId=media-v444748h6nTEYp41178052864Med.jp...Because if they weren't, that means they don't give a
poo about you! If I'm
not controlling and overly suspicious, you need to start worrying.... cause that means I'm detatched, unconcerned, and probably sleeping around with some other broad who's willing to hear my problems...
Ofcourse it's perfectly acceptable in our culture for the woman to boss around a man. "For their own good". Because ofcourse women are always right. As we've seen in every sitcom ever.
This is why the only real show I've liked is I Love Lucy. I think it takes the most realistic approach to gender roles, relationships, and genders as a whole. In the end, Ricky tries to be the alpha male, and is often just a loudmouth dumbass who has to cover his tracks. Lucy's a dumbass too and is just hoping Ricky won't findout some new mess she's gotten herself into. In the end they findout both are dumbasses, regardless of who submits and who dominates. And they realize, hey... Love just means being stupid together.
Some very good points Jim..as usual you are very informative