if you dont like this one  mantra..tell me..its Noni

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Ha ha DT - but seriously I'm not.   

I wish I wasn't so honest and had made up some beautiful sex goddess and pretended I looked like her.

That picture of Noni Hazlehurst is uncannily like me except I'm taller (5'6"), hopefully not as pudgy, with blue eyes and a few years younger.  We could be sisters. 

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That's very true DT - attractiveness does come from within.  As far as loving attention - that is usually reserved for the young and something they should take advantage of as often as possible.

In regard to females hating themselves - most women find something about themselves they don't like and wish they could improve upon.  The same goes for men I'm sure.

I am comfortable with myself and was only joking about pretending to look like a sex goddess.   I have had my share of attention and more - and certainly don't mind stepping back into the shadows and letting others demand theirs.   

I'm glad you like older women DT - they have a lot to offer and relationships can be fun and quite satisfying for both sides.   

Us men generally like EVERYTHING about ourselves !!!! 
Like Donald, I am totally disinterested in young women.  Complete selfish airheads.

Yes, those ones that go on about how their XXX is "wrong", forget about it.
They also say they flunked an exam, then get their usual 95%

Their level of false compassion and lying flounders me

Donald..

I think with older women and younger man phenomena it comes down to conditioning. Society tells us we have to stay and remain looking 20 something forever, that men are only interested in younger women..this is hardwired into a womans brain.Advertising ,plastic surgery, tv media, husbands ,boyfriends tell us dont get fat, etc. Its hard to undo years of social conditioning.

So when a younger man shows interest in her she somehow doesnt quite buy it. She thinks he doesnt really know my age, if he knew he would never look at me, so therefore it cannot happen..we know instinctively we cannot base a relationship on a lie, even one of ommsiion..so we just dont go there.

Older women know they only have so much to offer them..the body clock thing for instance..young men want and require babies..so it would be unfair to enmesh them into a situation whereby she knew that can't and wont happen.

I think for instance myself, I look younger than I actually am..the other day I noticed a young guy of around 18-22 tops giving me the eye. He was pretty cute too..but I immediately dismissed him as 'too young'..I thought he thinks Im younger than I am..most pple tell me I look much younger, so therefore I thought its based on false perceptions even if I found myself intrerested in someone this age, its not do-able, so to speak.

Where do you meet older women Donald..? In a supermarket..can ask them any number of questions such as 'can you tell me if......'? Fill in the blank.


I think older women just have issues with seeing younger guys like myself. Number 1- they feel too intimidated. Number 2-They don't think they're worth it. Number 3- They don't wanna date someone so unstable financially and perceive us to be immature. Number 4 - They think all young guys perceive them as ugly therefore dont bother trying .


This statement tells me you are emotionally very intelligent perceptive  and mature  DT..I hope you find one soon.

Sprintcyclist wrote on Jun 10^th, 2007 at 7:45pm:


Is it true to say I wonder Sprint that all young women are disingenuois? They simply lack life experience something they will acrue as time goes by.

Ausnat wrote on Jun 10^th, 2007 at 8:37pm:



I think I said that AN..but anyway heres a pic of me. anyone up for some scrumpy? ie : a date?

Im a very stealthy spy.