cods wrote on Mar 13
th, 2018 at 10:38am:
I can only believe someone has delayed puberty..this thread is 11 years old...
aqua your opinion of females is on a par with graps....I can only believe neither of you have mnet all that many females in your lives....certainly not ones you have had enduring relationships with....both of you make the weirdest pronouncements Quote:when you suck up to a woman, when you are needy, when you treat her like she is the prize, when you treat her like she is a rare commodity and you are desperate, you MUST be putting her on a pedestal and then , by definition, you are LOWER status and a lower status male is mildly disgusting to a woman.
total tosh... a diva maybe... but to call this a female problem.. seriously.....
Quote:but if a guy who is a bit of a bastard, a bit arrogant,
of a douche bag gets into a one on one conversation with her, she can relax because his douche bag arrogance is a good match for her bratty and bitchy behaviour. so she feels "connected" to this guy.
have you ever met a female who has been bashed by a male aqua??......I believe there are a few who have been just a few mind you!.......
did you happen to watch this show on Sunday by any chance...
https://twitter.com/sundaynighton7?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr... i suppose it would seem weird if you were someone who believed the group think on male female dynamics.
that says to just be a really nice guy, just have a nice car and a nice watch and be really nice.
meanwhile, the brazilian backpacker with 2 bucks in his wallet is doing much better
.
but what has gone wrong?
why are so many women dissappointed with men, shaming men, complaining they cant find a good man?
i blame men.
it is a MANS responsibility to create a quality woman and a quality relationship.
it is a MANS responsibility to create quality daughters.
fat steve (most men) sits on the couch, passive (or passive aggressive). he ignores his daughters (and probably his sons), he only pays attention to diva behaviour , his wife (fat janeen) probably overcompensates by smothering and rewarding princess bahaviour. schools and society instil anxiety and the green movement makes kids feel like they are a cancer on the planet.
all of this is not leading to quality men or women.
some women grow up in a loving household with good discipline and strict boundaries.
but a lot (maybe most) dont.
and those young women have self esteem issues, trust issues, abandonment issues, passive aggressive issues, and they do not fit the mould of the modern cultural hypnosis and they are going to be exploited by douche bags.
most men are NOT douche bags.
most men are frightened nerds.
and the pressure on them makes them very awkward and prone to mistakes.
everything about post modernism is making the male female dynamic (which is the very basis for mankind) more and more dysfunctional.
and no cods. i have a quality relationship with a quality woman and i work on making it .001 % better every day and when you do that for years on end , you get the benefits of compund interest
.
by the way, you DONT want "happily ever after", you want a quality women to "contend with".
thats where transformation occurs. your job, your wife, your kids are all just one problem after another. and if you rise to the challenge you go up and if you are like fat steve and you dont rise to the challenge and love the problems and love the adversity, you go down.