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Title: marriage Post by bludger on Jun 5th, 2012 at 1:48pm
Should anyone be allowed to marry 12 year old children?
Does Karnal have any knowledge of this? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:02pm bludger wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 1:48pm:
What is the scientific definition of adult? Quote:
Let's pose a different question. Should somebody who is sexually mature and wants to be married be forbidden to get married? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Soren on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:25pm falah wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:02pm:
I didn't realise marraige was a scientific institution. Another Islamic first? Quote:
Let's pose a different question. Should somebody who is sexually mature and wants to be married be forbidden to get married?[/quote] Yes, if he/she is emotionally, socially, mentally immature. It's not ALL about what your trouser snake tells you, numpty. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Frances on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:45pm bludger wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 1:48pm:
Hmmm.... I suppose that would be karnal knowledge.... |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Yadda on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:17pm falah wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:02pm:
Yes; Let's pose a different question. Should somebody who is sexually mature and >> DOES NOT << want to be married be forced to get married? NEWS ITEM FROM THE UK..... Quote:
Parents 'Starved And Threatened' Killed Teen - Yahoo! News UK http://uk.news.yahoo.com/parents-killed-teen-plastic-bag-mouth-104954745.html Google; mohammed, "silence is consent" "DAUGHTER; But daddy, i don't want to marry him. FATHER; Shut up darling, or i will beat you. DAUGHTER; OK daddy." +++ All moslems believe in their right to murder and rape, and to oppress other human beings. They, are moslems. ISLAM teaches moslems that they, moslems, lawfully** have that right, to murder those who offend ISLAM, and its laws. ** No matter what local infidel laws may say on the matter! And, ISLAMIC law specifically gives moslem men, the right to kill their children [and grandchildren]. [An ISLAMIC source is cited below], at the jihadwatch item. ISLAMIC sources declare that the killing of moslem children, by a parent, is 'lawful', within ISLAM... e.g. "British girl kidnapped by Saudi father: "I told [the police] he was keeping me there against my will and all they said was, 'He's your father, if he wants he can kill you'." Indeed, traditional Islamic law does not prescribe retaliation against a parent for killing his or her child. For example: "not subject to retaliation" is "a father or mother (or their fathers or mothers) for killing their offspring, or offspring's offspring." ('Umdat al-Salik o1.1-2)." " http://www.jihadwatch.org/2010/04/british-girl-kidnapped-by-saudi-father-i-told-the-police-he-was-keeping-me-there-against-my-will-and.html +++ Moslems empowered by ISLAM, knowing that they, moslems, may 'lawfully' kill their children, within Australia.... Calls, texts and Facebook posts reveal girl's final hours May 5, 2011 "A man who murdered his two-year-old daughter last year posted Facebook updates about his crime, a Melbourne court has learnt. ....Yazmina’s body was found in grassland near Greenvale Reservoir, near Broadmeadows in Melbourne’s north, in the early hours of November 18. Court documents reveal she had been stabbed more than once by her father before she was dumped. .....Earlier, Yazmina’s mother, Rachelle D’Argent, had received text messages from Acar. One read: "U wanted to convert ma kid do it u wanted to lock me up I did it u wanted 2 b indapendant do it u take full custdy do it u wana kill me il do it wat eva makes u happy nw tel me" (sic)." http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/bout-2-kill-ma-kid-guilty-fathers-chilling-facebook-updates-20110504-1e7g9.html#ixzz1LXX16bpR http://www.theherald.com.au/news/national/national/general/bout-2-kill-ma-kid-guilty-father-on-facebook/2152947.aspx |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Spot of Borg on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:21pm
In australia its illegal. Its carnal knowledge. In other countries the age is different.
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Title: Re: marriage Post by Yadda on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:33pm Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:21pm:
LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL! Its illegal ???????? And when has that stopped people, and esp. moslems, from 'righteously' flouting infidel laws, in infidel nations ??? e.g. Google; "France: Islamic holy man and his wife are jailed for mutilating the genitals of their four daughters" SOB, You speak on this forum, as though moslems were virtuous people, who always speak the truth. They ARE NOT, and they DO NOT. Google; taqiyya - the muslim doctrine of deceit “Speaking is a means to achieve objectives. If a praiseworthy aim is attainable through both telling the truth and lying, it is unlawful to accomplish it through lying because there is no need for it. When it is possible to achieve such an aim by lying but not by telling the truth, it is permissible to lie if attaining the goal is permissible..., and obligatory to lie if the goal is obligatory. ...One should compare the bad consequences entailed by lying to those entailed by telling the truth, and if the consequences of telling the truth are more damaging, one is entitled to lie…” http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taqiyya |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Spot of Borg on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:46pm
Uhhhh this is a bit weird
*backs away towards the door* SOB |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Yadda on Jun 5th, 2012 at 4:05pm
SOB,
You are a dissembler. [ <-----a deceiver ] And i am going to treat you, on this forum, as though you are a moslem. Hey SOB, The victims of the Hula massacre in Syria, didn't die of paranoia. Hey SOB, It isn't a 'conspiracy', if they really want to kill you. Google to find... e.g. "....when we say innocent people, we mean muslims...If you are a non-muslim, then you are guilty...." Anjem Choudary, UK muslim community leader, speaking publicly, of the London 7/7 bombing victims. e.g. "......In public interviews Bakri condemned the killing of all innocent civilians. Later when he addressed his own followers he explained that he had in fact been referring only to Muslims as only they were innocent: Yes I condemn killing any innocent people, but not any [unbeliever]." Sheikh Omar Bakri Muhammad, speaking publicly, and then privately, regarding the London 7/7 bombing victims. e.g. "We don't make a distinction between civilians and non-civilians, innocents and non-innocents. Only between Muslims and unbelievers. And the life of an unbeliever has no value. It has no sanctity." Sheikh Omar Bakri Muhammad, speaking to a moslem audience, regarding the London 7/7 bombing victims. ISLAM = deceit. a good read, outlining and exposing ISLAMIST sophistry... Islamic Dictionary for Infidels http://www.jihadwatch.org/2006/07/islamic-dictionary-for-infidels.html "....the death of those who are killed for the cause of God gives more impetus to the cause, which continues to thrive on their blood." ISLAMIC scholar, Sayyid Qutb. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Yadda on Jun 5th, 2012 at 4:16pm Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:46pm:
A 'bit weird', is the person who, when confronted with truth, chooses to back away from truth. I don't want such people beside me. Usually, they are cowards. That is my opinion. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Spot of Borg on Jun 5th, 2012 at 7:11pm
The age of consent in the vatican city is also 12. Google age of consent its 13 in spain. Its pretty young in a lot of countries. In australia its illegal before you are 16 and if you are caught you will be put in jail. Whether you are xtian catholic muslim or whatever.
SOB |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 5th, 2012 at 8:02pm
It's not actually illegal. It depends on the age difference and consent of the parents. This is an attempt to balance the rights of the young people who want to get married against the risk of exploitation of naive kids.
falah wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 2:02pm:
How about this for a question - should they be able to seek out and choose their own partner rather than having their parents choose one for them and society then pressure them into acceptance? Surely with maturity comes the ability to choose for yourself rather than passive acceptance of what is chosen for you. Genuine maturity would be expressed in this choice, rather than passive acceptance of sexual servitude, however well intentioned. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 5th, 2012 at 8:18pm Yadda wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 3:17pm:
Yadda, That has about as much to do with Islam as the Christian guy who threw his daughter off the West Gate Bridge has to do with Christianity. Typical of your arguments though. Absolutely unrelated incidents thrown together into a copy/paste fest with lots of bold and large fonts. If you can't bedazzle them with brilliance gotta baffle them with bovine faeces don't ya? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 5th, 2012 at 8:20pm Quote:
Abu didn't you attempt to attribute that to Christianity? Does that mean this crime can be attributed to Islam? Forgive me, I am still trying to get my head around the Islamic version of common sense. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:10pm freediver wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 8:02pm:
Sadly Freeliar, your puny brain cannot tell the difference between suggesting and forcing. Islam only allows parents to suggest potential spouses. Forcing anyone to marry is not allowed in Islam. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:16pm falah wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:10pm:
How much pressure are parents and society allowed to put on children to accept their proposals? How do you make a legal distinction between parents suggesting something to a child and forcing them to do it? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Soren on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:25pm falah wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:10pm:
"I suggest you marry great uncle Ahmed, if you know what's good for you..." How many young girls are taken from the West back to the ';old country' to marry some cousin they had never seen? Thousands. How many committed suicide? dozens, if not more. How many have been killed when they resisted? Again, dozens if not more. All cases of Muslims making 'suggestions'. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 5th, 2012 at 11:43pm freediver wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:16pm:
First of all, people should not be married off until they reach adulthood as scientifically defined. Secondly, any objection from a groom or bride should be enough to prevent any marriage from taking place. Freeliar, how do you determine whether anybody has been forced to do anything? If you can work that out, then you will have the answer to your question. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 5th, 2012 at 11:49pm Soren wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:25pm:
Forced marriage is forbidden by Islam. Out of 1.5 billion Muslims in the world, you might find a few village idiots who have done such a thing completely out of ignorance and in contravention of Islam. Surely you are intelligent enough to not judge a whole group of people by the acts of a very small few. Do you consider Americans to be forcers of marriage? I have heard that there are hillbillys there who practice shotgun weddings. The phrase does come from the US afterall: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_marriage#Shotgun_wedding |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:11am freediver wrote on Jun 5th, 2012 at 8:20pm:
Yeh... no. That was me positing it to mock how ridiculous claims about Islam are, but half wits like yourself simply don't get it, and instead think it's a deflection or an actual bona fide attempt to associate it to Christianity. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 6th, 2012 at 1:18pm
No such thing as forced marriage eh abu. I suppose your mob will be jealous he even beat the first Muslim terrorist's record (6).
Girl of five is youngest UK victim of forced marriage as Home Office looks at prosecuting families By Steve Doughty PUBLISHED: 12:03 GMT, 30 March 2012 | UPDATED: 21:43 GMT, 30 March 2012 Comments (304) Share Up to 400 children in the past year have been coerced into or threatened with marriage – including a girl aged just five. She is the youngest victim in Britain, according to the Home Office's Forced Marriage Unit. The young age of victims was disclosed as ministers consider whether to bring in new laws to make it possible to prosecute families who compel children to marry. Child wedding: There have been 400 cases of forced marriage in the past year A new criminal offence of forced marriage could be similar to the system in force in Scotland, which carries a maximum penalty of two years in jail. Children make up nearly a third of cases dealt with by the Home Office organisation. Its head, Amy Cumming, said: 'The youngest of these was actually five years old, so there are children involved in the practice across the school age range.' More...Jailed for being stabbed with a screwdriver: How hundreds of Afghan women are still in jail for 'moral crimes' Miss Cumming said 29 per cent of the cases her unit dealt with last year were under the age of 18. The name of the five-year-old has not been disclosed and no details of where or how she was married have been released. Baroness Warsi has condemned forced marriage as 'inhumane' and 'unacceptable' The Home Office said that most cases involve families from Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Pakistan, India, Iraq, Iran, Turkey and North and East Africa. The latest figures show the number of cases has dropped slightly in the past year. There were over 1,500 cases in 2011, she said. This compares with 1,618 in 2008, 1,682 in 2009 and 1,735 in 2010. However official research has suggested that they are likely to be between 5,000 and 8,000 cases in England each year. Cases frequently involve a girl or young woman being taken abroad, usually on the pretext of a holiday, then forced to marry a man they have never met in accordance with an arrangement reached by the two families. The involvement of children in forced marriage was confirmed by independent groups. Fionnuala Murphy of the Iranian and Kurdish Women's Rights Organisation said: 'We have had clients who are in their very early teens, 11-year-olds, 12-year-olds, the youngest case we had was nine years old.' Ministers say that forced marriage often breaks existing laws, including kidnapping, false imprisonment, harassment, or assault. Since 2008 victims have been able to take out a forced marriage protection order. By last summer 339 had been issued. The orders can mean the young person thought to be under threat can have their passport confiscated to prevent them from travelling abroad, or any marriage ceremony for them could be forbidden. Anyone who breaks the order is guilty of contempt of court and can be punished with a fine or up to two years in jail. But there is no specific criminal offence attached to forced marriage in England. Ministers have suggested that making an offence of forcing someone to marry would signal the State's disapproval and deter parents who are thinking of arranging coercive marriages. However they also worry that making it a crime could deter young women, or men, from trying to get help. They also fear it may encourage parents to take their children abroad permanently. A Government consultation on a forced marriage law ended yesterday. A Home Office spokesman said: 'Forced marriage is an appalling form of abuse and we are determined to tackle it. 'That's why we have held a consultation on making it a criminal offence and will criminalise the breach of forced marriage protection orders.' The Coalition's equalities minister Lynne Featherstone said: 'We will now consider all responses to the consultation before we make a decision. 'We are determined, working closely with charities and other organisations, to make forced marriage a thing of the past.' |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 6th, 2012 at 2:16pm
The Daily Mail is known to fabricate stories.
http://tabloid-watch.blogspot.com.au/search/label/mail http://einekleinenichtmusik.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/dailyt-mail-fake-news-for-readers-too.html http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/greenslade/2011/oct/04/dailymail-amanda-knox http://penigma.blogspot.com.au/2012/05/daily-mail-aka-daily-fail-is-connected.html Quote:
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Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:30pm Quote:
Adulthood is not a scientific concept. According to Abu, they can be married off before they reach puberty. Quote:
You are missing the point Falah. Children do what their parents tell them too. Well behaved ones do it without objecting. Quote:
First off, we reject the notion of arranged marriages and child brides. We avoid having to make that distinction when it comes to marriages. Quote:
That was me positing it to mock how ridiculous claims about Islam are Quote:
Abu, if people cannot tell when you are being serious perhaps you need to consider why they find it hard to take you seriously. You say a lot of buggered up things. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by John Smith on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:43pm
the only thing 12 yr olds should be doing is playing with their dolls or bikes .... any parent who wants to marry off his / her kids at the age of 12 should be imprisoned for life ... the same sentence they give their kids
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Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 6th, 2012 at 8:59pm John Smith wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:43pm:
Or, as in the Western "culture", they should be out getting pregnant to their boyfriends, so they can get their welfare cheques and baby bonuses. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Morning Mist on Jun 6th, 2012 at 9:04pm abu_rashid wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 8:59pm:
Lol. Yeah, these prego, dole bludging 12 year olds are everywhere. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 6th, 2012 at 10:59pm freediver wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:30pm:
Of course it is. In scientific terms adulthood means "having reached sexual maturity". Ask a biologist. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 6th, 2012 at 11:12pm freediver wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:30pm:
;D ;D ;D ;D I am guessing that you do not have much to do with adolescent children. As a teacher and a parent, I can see that you live in a fantasy world. freediver wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 7:30pm:
Arranged marriages are good they take all the effort out of looking for a spouse, and one can benefit from the wisdom of ones parents. I would have been very happy if my parents had bothered to arrange a marriage for me. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:18am Postmodern Trendoid III wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 9:04pm:
Well here's a few interesting facts about Western society and pregnancy: Since 2001, 31% of babies born in Australia have been born to unmarried mothers. The results of the 2010 United States Census showed that 27% of children live with one parent, Countries located in Asia and the Middle East are the least likely to have children raised in single parent households. Along with this, the areas where there are an extremely high number of children living in single parent homes include Africa, Europe, Latin America, North America, and Oceania. (Interestingly the most Christian parts of the world, rich or poor, educated or not). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Single_parent |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:37am abu_rashid wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:18am:
Good to see you are back into believing in FACTS, now can you please delete your lies KUFFER MUSLIM. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:44am
Anyway doesn't bother me, I'm sure you are just totally thrilled at having to foot the bill for the stupendous ideology that encourages girls to have sex whenever and with whomever they feel like.
It is your own ruin... |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:26am falah wrote on Jun 6th, 2012 at 10:59pm:
Falah, sexual maturity means sexual maturity and nothing more. No genuine biologist would claim some kind of scientific link between this and the human concept of adulthood. Quote:
;D Perhaps you should stop trying to explain to women why Islamic wife beating is so much kinder than western wife beating. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by John Smith on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:34am abu_rashid wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:18am:
In western society if our relationship with our spouse fails, we don't beat them into submission or kill them ... we leave them ... thats why they have high single parent rates ... you think your kids would rather you left your wife? or see you beat her to a pulp? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:26am John Smith wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:30am:
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Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:44am John Smith wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:34am:
Divorce is much easier in Islam than in Western law. John Smith wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:34am:
This sort of thing is not allowed in Islam. Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them, it may be that ye dislike a thing that God brings about through it a great deal of good." [Qur'an, an-nisaa' (the Women) v.19] |
Title: Re: marriage Post by John Smith on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:55am falah wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:44am:
I never mentioned Islam v's christian ... I said western ... divorce isn't menioned in the Bible either, and yet it happens .... |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:37am freediver wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:26am:
Freeliar will you lie about everything? Quote:
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The whole concept of adolescence was invented about a century ago by quacks. Since then, Western governments still can't decide when adulthood begins. In Australia, a person is deemed to understand a person can be found criminally responsible at age 10. Marry, work, and get their own Medicare card at 16. They can join the army at 17. They can vote at 18. When does adulthood begin? Australian courts have allowed a 13 year-old girl to have a sex change, and allowed a 14 year-old to divorce his parents. Quote:
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Title: Re: marriage Post by Grandmaster on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:41am
One "scientific" indicator of adulthood is the eruption of wisdom teeth.
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Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:21am ... wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:41am:
Another could be the eruption of grey hair - or perhaps ear hair? |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 7th, 2012 at 6:15pm Quote:
This is true. Falah was even so kind as to explain how the Islamic divorce process is an effective defence against marital rape and if the wife is clever enough she can have her husband stoned to death for it (theoretically of course). He is a worldly man. Quote:
Can you explain the bit in the Koran about Muhammed's response to a wife being beaten until her skin turned green? Quote:
Again Falah, you misunderstand your own evidence. This is not equating puberty and adulthood - notice the word 'or'. Quote:
Yes Falah - our definition of adulthood contradicts the biological one - well done. Now if only you could figure out what it means before posting it. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:14pm John Smith wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:34am:
What garbage, spousal murders occur quite frequently in Western society. Western societies are hotbeds of domestic abuse and spousal murder. Quote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_the_United_States READ THAT ALOUD, 1 in 4 women in the U.S, the leader of the Western world, experience domestic violence. This practice is RIFE, absolutely RIFE in your societies, and then you come making wild accusations about Islam. Obviously to deflect from your own atrocities, as always. Quote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_pregnant_women No doubt we're now going to hear the typical response of: "It's only higher in Western society because we report it, it's under-reported in other countries, but happens more". |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:03pm Quote:
Abu, how do you think that compares with Islamic societies? Do you realise that the domestic violence it talks about includes what Islam permits - and what you like to pretend is not actually domestic violence. You can't have it both ways. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by John Smith on Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:22pm abu_rashid wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 8:14pm:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_pregnant_women No doubt we're now going to hear the typical response of: "It's only higher in Western society because we report it, it's under-reported in other countries, but happens more".[/quote] thats because if someone beats their wife to death in Islamic countries it's all kept hush hush, pay the right bribe, give them your ten yr old daughter to marry, they;ll turn a blind eye ... and you ridiculing the under reporting of the crimes does not make them it any less true .... |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:00pm
READ THAT ALOUD, 1 in 4 women in the U.S, the leader of the Western world, experience domestic violence. This practice is RIFE, absolutely RIFE in your societies, and then you come making wild accusations about Islam. Obviously to deflect from your own atrocities, as always.
WHY DONT YOU TRY TO READ THIS ALOUD 1. AFGHANISTAN Beleaguered by insurgency, corruption and dire poverty, Afghanistan ranked as most dangerous to women overall and came out worst in three of the poll's key risk categories: health, non-sexual violence and economic discrimination. * Women in Afghanistan have a one in 11 chance of dying in childbirth. * Some 87 pct of women are illiterate. * 70-80 pct of girls and women face forced marriages. 2. CONGO Still reeling from a 1998-2003 war and accompanying humanitarian disaster that killed 5.4 million, Democratic Republic of Congo ranked second due mainly to staggering levels of sexual violence. * About 1,150 women are raped every day, or some 420,000 a year, according to a recent report in the American Journal of Public Health. * The Congolese Women's Campaign Against Sexual Violence puts the number of rapes at 40 women a day. * 57 pct of pregnant women are anaemic. 3. PAKISTAN Those polled cited cultural, tribal and religious practices harmful to women, including acid attacks, child and forced marriage and punishment or retribution by stoning or other physical abuse. * More than 1,000 women and girls are victims of "honour killings" every year, according to Pakistan's Human Rights Commission. * 90 pct of women in Pakistan face domestic violence. Did you notice Abu that the muslims came first and third in the debauchery stakes. Why is it you wont admit the muslim cesspool is far more disgusting than the West's? http://in.reuters.com/article/2011/06/15/idINIndia-57704120110615 |
Title: Re: marriage Post by freediver on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:36pm
Don't bother adamant. Everything bad that happens in Muslim countries is also the west's fault. Afghanistan is a good example. Pretty soon Abu or Falah will explain how under the Taliban, girls were kept out of school, which effectively prevented anyone from raping them.
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Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:51pm Adamant wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:00pm:
None of this relates to spousal murders. And one has to really question where they come up with these figures for forced marriages. What they probably mean is marriages where the families organise the match up. The "force" in it is a very subjective claim. Adamant wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:00pm:
This is about the closest you come to actually providing a case, yet you seem to have missed out one very important point.... Quote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Democratic_Republic_of_the_Congo#Religion Dropkick ;D Adamant wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:00pm:
It'd be interesting to know just who "those polled" really were.. Very interested to know the ultimate source for the claim 90% of Pakistani women face domestic violence. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:13pm
Why did you not bother to read my statement.
Did you notice Abu that the muslims came first and third in the debauchery stakes. Why is it you wont admit the muslim cesspool is far more disgusting than the West's? Who is the dickhead abu? I clearly stated First and Third! Follow the link to find the source or if you are too lazy go here. http://www.trust.org/trustlaw/womens-rights/dangerpoll/ There is a far more insightful article about the plight of the abused women of Pakistan I found it most distressing, women telling their own awful stories. Do you think they are liars. On the night of his birth, while my whole family was celebrating, I went to my uncle's house to get more bread. I didn't know a young man was there. In the empty home, he took advantage of me; he did things that I didn't understand; he touched my chest. Before I could realize, there was a cloth over my mouth and I was being raped. I was having trouble walking back home; I felt faint and I had a headache. This happens a lot in villages. Young girls are raped, murdered, and buried. No one is able to trace them after their disappearance. If a woman is not chaste, she is unworthy of marriage. All he did is ask for forgiveness and they let him go as it was best to avoid having others find out what had happened. He didn't receive any punishment even though he ruined me. People may have forgotten what he did, but I never forgot. Now, he is married and living his life happily. I blame my own fate; I am just unlucky that this happened to me. Read more of what muslims do to muslims here http://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2012/04/to-be-a-woman-in-pakistan-six-stories-of-abuse-shame-and-survival/255585/# |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Soren on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:20pm abu_rashid wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 10:51pm:
Sure. This 11 year old has obviously been dreaming about her 40 year old husband for years. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:29pm
Here is another instance of forced marriage abu.
Where Arranged Marriages Are Customary, Suicides Grow More Common Ayman Oghanna for The New York Times Some deaths are not suicides but honor killings. Abdella Hassan said his daughter, recently married to a cousin, had stabbed herself, but his sons are accused of her murder. By TIM ARANGO Published: June 6, 2012 Google+ Share Reprints SINJAR, Iraq — With her father sitting nearby, 16-year-old Jenan Merza struggled to explain why she was lying in bed recovering from a gunshot wound. Connect With Us on Twitter Follow @nytimesworld for international breaking news and headlines. Twitter List: Reporters and Editors . Enlarge This Image Ayman Oghanna for The New York Times Jenan Merza, 16, forced to wed a cousin, shot herself. The New York Times “I didn’t know the gun was loaded,” she said, resting under a red-and-gold blanket in a stark room with a bare concrete floor. A couple of moments later, after her father left the room to fix tea and coffee, she cried softly and admitted what really happened, how she had shot herself in the abdomen with her brother’s Glock pistol after first trying with a Kalashnikov rifle — a weapon too long to point at herself and pull the trigger. “I tried to kill myself,” she said. “I didn’t want to get married. I was forced to get engaged.” In this desolate and tradition-bound community in the northwest corner of Iraq, at the foot of a mountain range bordering Syria, Ms. Merza’s reaction to the ancient custom of arranged marriage is becoming more common. Officials are alarmed by what they describe as a worsening epidemic of suicides, particularly among young women tormented by being forced to marry too young, to someone they do not love. While reliable statistics on anything are hard to come by in Iraq, officials say there have been as many as 50 suicides this year in this city of 350,000 — at least double the rate in the United States — compared with 80 all of last year. The most common methods among women are self-immolation and gunshots. Among the many explanations given, like poverty and madness, one is offered most frequently: access to the Internet and to satellite television, which came after the start of the war. This has given young women glimpses of a better life, unencumbered by the traditions that have constricted women for centuries to a life of obedience and child-rearing, one devoid of romance. “The society had been closed, and now it is open to the rest of the world,” said Kheri Shingli, an official in a local political party and a writer and journalist. “They feel they are not living their life well compared to the rest of the world.” Last year the International Organization for Migration conducted a study on the growing suicide problem in Sinjar, where mental health services do not exist, and concluded that “the marginalization of women and the view of the woman’s role as peripheral contributed to the recent suicides.” A report compiled this year by a researcher at a local health center concluded, “The way to solve this is to put an end to forced marriages.” That will probably not happen soon. In assigning blame for the rise in suicides, many people here mentioned the Turkish soap opera “Forbidden Love.” A romantic drama of the upper class, it is a favorite program of women here, and some people say it provides an unrealistic example of the lives that could be available outside Sinjar. Ms. Merza said she watched the show, and she admitted, “I wish I had that life,” but her anguish seems more basic. At 16, she wants to remain a child. “I want to stay with my mom and not go back to my husband,” she said. Ms. Merza’s father, Barkat Hussein, interviewed later in private, said he was aware that the shooting was not an accident. “We gave her to her cousin less than 20 days ago,” he said. “She accepted him. Like anyone who gets married, she should be happy.” He said he would not force her to return to her husband, who lives next door. But, he said: “I hope she will go back to him. His father is my brother.” He, too, blamed the Turkish soap opera for his daughter’s unhappiness, and he nodded toward the room where his wife was working. “I got married to my cousin,” he said. “I wasn’t in love with her, but we are here, living together. That’s what happens here, we marry our relatives.” Like Ms. Merza’s family, a majority of the inhabitants here are Yazidis, who speak Kurdish but adhere to a religion that combines elements of Islam and strains of ancient Persian religions. Among their beliefs is a special reverence for a figure called Melek Taus, whom Muslims regard as Satan. For this, they have often been branded as devil worshipers, which has justified historical oppression of the sect by extremist Muslims. In 2007, Sinjar suffered the deadliest coordinated terrorist attack of the war years, when several trucks packed with explosives and driven by suicide bombers exploded, killing nearly 500 people and destroying the same number of homes, most of which were made of mud. The town’s economy has historically relied on tobacco and figs, but neglect and war have rendered the agriculture industry dormant, and many men seek work as day laborers in the Kurdish cities of Erbil and Sulaimaniya. Its proximity to Syria means that refugees come from the west, and smugglers of cigarettes and weapons for the Syrian rebels trace their path back. The area is a cordoned-off no man’s land, where neither the central government nor the Kurdish regional government seems to have much control. A visitor here might notice a big blue sign on the outskirts that reads, almost mockingly, “Happy Land,” the name for a dilapidated amusement park. In the early 1970s, the opening scenes of “The Exorcist” were filmed here among the ancient Yazidi shrines. Officials here say that some cases that are judged as suicides are actually honor killings, in which family members kill women who commit adultery or seek to marry outside their religion or class and then cover it up by claiming suicide. “This happens, too,” said Dr. Majia Khalaf, who runs a government health center. In one recent case, a father tried to claim that his 19-year-old daughter had stabbed herself to death, but her brothers were being held on suspicion of murder. The father, Abdella Hassan, said that he had recently married his daughter to her cousin, and that shortly after the wedding she began “talking nonsense” and having hallucinations. He took her to a Yazidi sheik, who said the devil had overtaken her and who advised an exorcism rite that involved covering herself in dust from a Yazidi shrine. Before the rite could be performed, the father said, he found her dead. “I saw her happy in her marriage,” he said. “It wasn’t that.” Duraid Adnan contributed reporting from Sinjar and Baghdad. Muslims loving muslims don't ya just love it to death http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/07/world/middleeast/more-suicides-in-iraq-region-where-arranged-marriage-is-common.html?_r=2 |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 8th, 2012 at 8:24am Adamant wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:29pm:
You retard. Don't you realise that Yazidis are not Muslim? Yazidis are Zoroastrian peacock worshipers. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Soren on Jun 8th, 2012 at 8:54am falah wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 8:24am:
Peacock worsgipper? Look who's talking! You guys dance around a bloody rock! |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 8th, 2012 at 10:49am Soren wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 8:54am:
More lies Freeliar/Sore One? The Ka'aba is the first temple in the world dedicated to God Almighty. Not a rock: |
Title: Re: marriage Post by adamant on Jun 8th, 2012 at 10:56am falah wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 8:24am:
elements of Islam I love it when you prove you an arrogant racist bigoted person. Your hatred of all things non muslim never ceases to amaze me. As a teacher, do you let your hatred spill over into the class room, or is it a Muslim school where the hatred is literally bread into them? Did you read about this persons beliefs http://english.alarabiya.net/articles/2012/06/04/218511.html I would have thought that, with your known predisposition to young girls your blue card should have been taken away from you by now, Go and have a look at this website to see what your most hateful religion does to its followers. http://www.rawa.org/temp/runews/2012/05/30/girl-22-hangs-herself-to-death-in-ghor.html I don't think you will look at it though Falah because it paints a totally different picture to your lies on the subject, also it is run by the Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan (RAWA). So in your eyes it has nothing going for it! I remember reading an article on the rates of anal gonorrhea in Afghan men. they did not think of anal sex as a homosexual act. One of the men said "you sleep with women for babies you sleep with men for pleasure"! I think that statement sums up the reason why women's lives are so miserable under islam. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Antonio Primo de Rivera on Jun 8th, 2012 at 11:23am
lol
trying to demonstrate a religion's absurdity by pointing out its admittedly genuinely absurd customs pretty much opens the floodgates for all religions though |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Morning Mist on Jun 8th, 2012 at 11:29am abu_rashid wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 12:18am:
How many of those are 12 year olds on welfare? Anyway, the answer to this problem is not Islam. That's a sure way to send the country to the sh*tter real quick. The problem is more about installing respect, responsibility, and self-discipline in the youth. How this is to be done is by wrestling the control of institutions from the leftists. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 8th, 2012 at 7:12pm Adamant wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 10:56am:
You goose, you still don't get it. Yazidis are not Muslim. Adamant wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 10:56am:
You are right on that one. I do not pay much attention to communist propaganda. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by Soren on Jun 8th, 2012 at 7:19pm JC Denton wrote on Jun 8th, 2012 at 11:23am:
Well, that's OK. If a religion is more about the ritual than the heart of the matter, then it needs to have the disinfectant sunlight of reason and soul shone on it. Some rituals are honourable, soulful, life-giving and replenishing, others stupid, suffocating or worse. Religion is not about rituals, even as it has rituals. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by abu_rashid on Jun 9th, 2012 at 10:47am Adamant wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 11:29pm:
Still posting stories about non-Muslims I see, and ignorantly attributing it to Islam. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by bludger on Jun 10th, 2012 at 5:56pm
It seems to me it's the dirty minded sniggering men in islamic society that set themselves up as judges and condemn women to death.
That's why we don't want you here. |
Title: Re: marriage Post by falah on Jun 10th, 2012 at 9:55pm bludger wrote on Jun 10th, 2012 at 5:56pm:
Most people are not as ignorant as you. |
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