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Title: totally cruel. Post by cods on Jan 5th, 2016 at 6:34am
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/police-recover-bodies-of-man-two-children-from-car-driven-at-speed-off-south-australian-wharf/story-fni0cx4q-1227697245448
A MOTHER has been left devastated and a nation in shock after a father drove himself and their two young children to their deaths in the depths of Boston Bay at Port Lincoln, South Australia. Damien Little, aged in his 30s, drove his white Ford station wagon with his children Hunter and Koda, aged about one and four years respectively, from Brennan’s Wharf into 30m of water about 6am on Monday. Little’s station wagon was travelling at up to 80km/h when it plunged into the sea in the tragic murder-suicide. A distraught relative said the family was “in shock” after the incident. She declined to comment further. Police divers — flown from Adelaide — emerged from the water at 12.30pm with three body bags and a rifle with a telescopic sight. Friends said Little posted a lengthy suicide note on social media at 5.45am on Monday. I feel so sad beyond belief.....we dont hear of parents doing this in 3rd world countries... what the hell is going wrong with us.??... |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by bogarde73 on Jan 5th, 2016 at 6:58am
Do you think the nation is shocked cods?
It's surely just another story in an endless run of the same. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Saul Goodman on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:21am
Yes very sad,
I wonder what drove him to do this? (no pun intended) |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by aquascoot on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:25am
I think resilience training is the answer Cods.
This guy , obviously entered a very dark place, was undoubtedly very sad about a marriage failure one would think and couldnt cope with that personal trauma. But you need to constantly be coping with trauma, welcoming trauma, welcoming obstacles, welcoming challenges...thus you develop resilience. I'll tell you a true story. A 78 yo who lives near me. as an 11 yo he was sent to a station to do mustering and fencing. he used to fence in 40 degree heat and the station owner used to give him 2 litres of water a day. he has had an increbibly tough life. spastic child he looked after , wife left him lived alone. now he has prostate cancer and its in his bones. and you know what, every day, he saddles up his horse and goes for a trail ride and sometimes drops in for a chat. 78 yo with a really hard life and now going to die.(alone) ive never heard the bloke complain. actually he doesnt speak much. 16 yo kids want to top themselves when someone says something mean on facebook. blokes who go thru a relationship breakdown who go into cry baby mode and then completely lose the plot they want to come spend the school holidays with this bloke and get a bit of perspective |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by red baron on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:30am
How gutless of him to take out his own kids. If he wanted to finish his own life that's his decision. But his children have a right to a life of their own. I know he was mentally disturbed but I feel so much for those little kids.
Haven't heard about his wife? |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Maqqa on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:39am
When 2 bulls fight - flies and fleas die
The majority of the time women are verbally spiteful The majority of the time men are physically violent Selfish, selfish, selfish The children gets in the crossfire |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by aquascoot on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:46am
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yu7n0XzqtfA
mandatory watching for all who think "touchy feeley counselling " is the solution. The romans were onto something |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Lisa Jones on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:48am red baron wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 7:30am:
Ditto. His wife has been given a life sentence of grief/loss/pain. I so pray she has a resilient soul. RIP you 2 little angels. ♡♡ Lord knows what you went through during your final moments on this wretched earth.♡♡ |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by cods on Jan 5th, 2016 at 8:11am bogarde73 wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 6:58am:
that is what worries me boges.. we are getting used to it??... its becoming the norm... mum or dad kills themselves and their children... yeah what else is news... we have everything and nothing in this country... we are doing something wrong....WHAT IS IT?.... this father in his 30s......it isnt new... this is whats scary.....this guy thought about this... he wrote a note....on facebook like you do.... he planned it....everything is planned... its thought out... you sit and plan to murder your children... how does that work???????... what beef can you possibly have with two little children... that you want to take their lives????????... I cant imagine wanting to take your own life.... but your childrens as well........nooooooooo......dont tell me this guy was normal he didnt show any signs of wanting to end his life..........you dont just do this in a moment.....you dont sit and write about doing it on facebook....out of the blue.... we are missing something...... |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by mothra on Jan 5th, 2016 at 8:45am cods wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 8:11am:
Thr sad fact is that most fathers who kill their children do so to hurt their ex-partners. It's revenge. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by innocentbystander. on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:01am
Maybe the mother of the children with the help of the courts, the police, the government, the judges, the feminists, the lawyers and a cabal of other assorted flotsam and jetsam were trying to rob him, defame him, make sure he never saw his children again and generally destroy his whole life ... thats a common theme. :(
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by mothra on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:02am innocentbystander. wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:01am:
So he killed them. Right? |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Alinta on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:08am mothra wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 8:45am:
Based on cases I'm aware of, I agree with you Mothra. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by innocentbystander. on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:08am mothra wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:02am:
Yes it appears so. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by innocentbystander. on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:09am Alinta wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:08am:
Revenge for what? |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Alinta on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:26am innocentbystander. wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:09am:
Your reply at #10 goes some way to explaining it I think. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by innocentbystander. on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:30am
It is at this point that I would like to remind all teenage boys that they should get a vasectomy as soon as possible.
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by cods on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:37am innocentbystander. wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:01am:
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if you read the link. nothing could be further from the truth... we seem to have lost our coping mechanism... even during our worst years the great depression... we didnt see this...tragic outcome over and over.. does the brain really go into neutral....and just give up?.. there has to be a reason all this....why give up on your children?. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by innocentbystander. on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:46am cods wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:37am:
Things have become a lot more complicated now, destroying white males has become a blood sport, they don't want them to cope, they want them to go nuts so that they can use that as evidence for yet more reasons why they should destroy them. |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Alinta on Jan 5th, 2016 at 10:04am cods wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:37am:
I don't know Cods....I just don't know. Unlike most other cases I know of, he took his own life as well as that of his children........and there appears (at least from neighbours' comments)not to be any indicators that all was not well within the family. My suburb has internet connection problems and I can't access most sites....is there any info out there that sheds light on the suicide note????? |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by cods on Jan 5th, 2016 at 10:39am innocentbystander. wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:46am:
I used to say all the drug problems we had were a communist plot to disable our young people.. but there isnt any communist plot anymore... we are killing ourselves....we dont need any help...we have HUGE MENTAL ISSUES IN THIS COUNTRY. why.. we live in one of the most healthy regions in the world/. we have a great health system.. education system... stuff we dont see in 3rd world countries....we dont have children living in garbage dumps...yet barely a week go es by where we dont read of some tragedy or other...that involves children.... adults taking the lives of children... Alinta wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 10:04am:
they removed the suicide note early.....not many people I guess would have read it... unless he said what he was going to do... what could you do to prevent it.?... |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by aquascoot on Jan 5th, 2016 at 11:16am
The mental health of the community requires that beta males have some direction in life.
The response of the left to any sort of mental health problem is always more softly softly stuff and trying to create this sort of effeminate end game. counselling, hand wringing, diagnosing anyone who doesnt relish adversity as suffering PTSD (rewarding a weak mind). Until men in particular are expected to act like men, you can expect a lot more of this "schizo ' type behaviour. Men settle down and find comfort when they have a superior man, a calm man, an alpha man to provide leadership. And these types of leaders are under attack in the west as beta males are promoted by society. having Vladamir in charge is simply safer for society then these endless nancy boys (Rudd, Obama, Cameron) etc etc |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by gandalf on Jan 5th, 2016 at 11:28am innocentbystander. wrote on Jan 5th, 2016 at 9:01am:
Wow... just wow Next time all you righties feel like railing against the lefties for apologising for terrorists and what not - please just read this |
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Title: Re: totally cruel. Post by Lisa Jones on Jan 5th, 2016 at 11:29am |
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